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Topic: Is there any hope for black women over 40
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sat 11/02/13 03:37 PM
Thank you everyone for the encouragement. After talking to some married and long-termed couples, I know what i want. My list has been cut to whats most important. N Yes..I do date outside my race. I gave it to God, but some days I do wonder. Especially when I see so many of us walking around. But I will wait. I know it will happen. Thanks again everyone. Hugs n Kisses Why must you live so far away from me?

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Sat 11/02/13 09:02 PM Edited by CremeBrulee on Sat 11/02/13 09:06 PM
Thank you everyone for the encouragement. After talking to some married and long-termed couples, I know what i want. My list has been cut to whats most important. N Yes..I do date outside my race. I gave it to God, but some days I do wonder. Especially when I see so many of us walking around. But I will wait. I know it will happen. Thanks again everyone. Hugs n Kisses Why must you live so far away from me? Aaaaaaaawwwwww and I thought Melmacians can teleport??

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 11/03/13 04:24 AM
I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? there's no hope for anyone here all y'all are doomed! doooomed!

loovedoove Joined Sun 09/15/13 Posts: 154	Sun 11/03/13 12:57 PM
I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? there's no hope for anyone here all y'all are doomed! doooomed! Dude that is so mean but you are entitled to your own opinion! I am 43 and I know there is still hope for me and the other ladies in my category.

Sexylove2020 Joined Mon 11/04/13 Posts: 1	Mon 11/04/13 06:25 AM
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Junior98 Joined Mon 11/04/13 Posts: 1	Mon 11/04/13 10:08 AM
Will I ever meet a good woman. First wife tricked me told me child was mine and after 9 year the truth comes out. Second wife was cool till we married then she started hitting me and taking my money, there are good men out there, some were dogs from the beginning other were turned into dogs by mean women however I'm gonna stay true to myself in hopes the real woman will come along one day

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 11/04/13 07:32 PM
I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? there's no hope for anyone here all y'all are doomed! doooomed! Dude that is so mean but you are entitled to your own opinion! I am 43 and I know there is still hope for me and the other ladies in my category. Ha ha ha haaaa... My dear,you fell for JT's "meanness"?? Please don't...he's a lamb! Doesn't mean no harm,trust me!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 11/04/13 07:37 PM
Will I ever meet a good woman. First wife tricked me told me child was mine and after 9 year the truth comes out. Second wife was cool till we married then she started hitting me and taking my money, there are good men out there, some were dogs from the beginning other were turned into dogs by mean women however I'm gonna stay true to myself in hopes the real woman will come along one day Whaaaaat? She hit you? That's too hectic for me to even imagine!! Eish My opinion,try a different type of women-women xtremely different from your exes...try looking at something much more different than what attracted you to your exes! Yes,there are sooo many good women on here and everywhere. You just have to open your eyes wider,sift through the chaff!! Goodluck to you!

musthav1 Joined Sat 10/19/13 Posts: 7	Wed 11/06/13 08:45 AM
Hey junior98, Thats awful. You have to be wise in who give your heart to. Newbiechick is right. Pick better women. Also get wise council. Sometimes the people we are close to will misguide us....intentionally or unintentionally.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Wed 11/06/13 10:59 AM
Pick better women Sadly, the better women are either too far away or consider me to be too old.

burgerss Joined Wed 11/06/13 Posts: 95	Wed 11/06/13 11:34 AM
Whaaaaat? She hit you? That's too hectic for me to even imagine!! It's fairly common. I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? My mothers in her 70's and she goes through this also. I think you could reduce the number by looking in different places. Friends of friends might work?

Bapsi Joined Tue 11/05/13 Posts: 13	Thu 11/07/13 03:31 AM
There's always hope m'lady

baba2kind Joined Thu 11/07/13 Posts: 6	Thu 11/07/13 04:53 PM
Your time has come

baba2kind Joined Thu 11/07/13 Posts: 6	Thu 11/07/13 04:56 PM
Yes there is hope

baba2kind Joined Thu 11/07/13 Posts: 6	Thu 11/07/13 05:10 PM
I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? Your time has come

Mark_the_Man Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 381	Wed 11/13/13 05:46 AM
There's always hope m'lady Absolutely right. Until you give up, there's always hope. :) I mean, Aragorn said it in The Two Towers so how could it be wrong? =D

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 11/14/13 09:31 AM
Pick better women Sadly, the better women are either too far away or consider me to be too old. And they DO miss out on a great guy too!! Sooo,cheer up,Alien!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 11/14/13 09:35 AM
Whaaaaat? She hit you? That's too hectic for me to even imagine!! It's fairly common. I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? My mothers in her 70's and she goes through this also. I think you could reduce the number by looking in different places. Friends of friends might work? Seriously-no idea! Where I come from,its the men who do in the women...not the other way round! Eish! Thinking of both makes me shudder!!

loveychak777 Joined Sat 11/09/13 Posts: 29	Thu 11/14/13 12:30 PM
Thank you everyone for the encouragement. After talking to some married and long-termed couples, I know what i want. My list has been cut to whats most important. N Yes..I do date outside my race. I gave it to God, but some days I do wonder. Especially when I see so many of us walking around. But I will wait. I know it will happen. Thanks again everyone. Hugs n Kisses Hey keep hoping and have faith. Gods time is the best. The right man will surely come your way. Good luck.

loveychak777 Joined Sat 11/09/13 Posts: 29	Thu 11/14/13 12:31 PM
Thank you everyone for the encouragement. After talking to some married and long-termed couples, I know what i want. My list has been cut to whats most important. N Yes..I do date outside my race. I gave it to God, but some days I do wonder. Especially when I see so many of us walking around. But I will wait. I know it will happen. Thanks again everyone. Hugs n Kisses Hey keep hoping and have faith. Gods time is the best. The right man will surely come your way. Good luck.