Topic: When in a relationship... | |
---|---|
...do you revert to other types of birth control and throw away the condoms?
It has been so long since I have been in a serious enough long-term thing that I did not use latex. I can't imagine not using them. Totally safety girl and don't need anything catching. How do you approach this with your partner? After how long? Go for blood work together? Why am I such a dork? Also, everyone, please don't delete as a wrong forum. I worried if I posted in the Sex and Dating forum people would be sending me free condoms. Hugs, M |
|
|
|
i think that choice is completely up to you and what you are more comfortable using.
|
|
|
|
The only question you pose that I feel I am at liberty to answer is this: MicheleNC- "Why am I such a dork?" Because you're a Babbelah!! (sp? context??) ![]() ![]() Guuuurrll....you know what to do! Don't worry so much! You'll figure it out!! ![]() BTW, I like your plea to 'not delete'. ![]() ![]() You deserve a free condom for that!! ![]() ![]() |
|
|
|
Condoms yes!!! Until the aids test comes back neg, its latex all the way!!!!
|
|
|
|
You do what you feel is right for you.
![]() ![]() ![]() |
|
|
|
Darlings!
I know what I am going to do. Use latex forever!!! Trust no one and back up birth control. My beau is more than okay with my insistence on it. Only been in 1 relationship since my divorce that got past the latex time. What does everyone else do? When do you feel comfortable enough to talk about blood work and going without? I should be working rather than playing! Why aren't we all at the beach? ![]() PS-Bayareagal...you are my bubbeleh! It's phonetics, you cant' spell it wrong. |
|
|
|
I'll let you know what I'll do when I actually get into a relationship, sweetie. Right now, the closet I'm getting to sex is looking it up in the dictionary.
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
|
|
|
I believe Barbara Cartland when she says that sex with a condom is masturbation. There is no actual or real touch from which there are benefits. Some women say that if U can't ride em bareback, do not ride at all.
Unless one gets cut, aids is not transmitted by vaginal sex; but other stds are like herpes. Aids, when sexually transmitted, is by anal sex. I never did and will never do that. So my fear of aids is lessened. Where I work, all have to take aids and other STD tests every year. If I like a woman and she insists on condom, she could keep moving away from me. If I am going to be with a woman FOREVER, what am I using a condom for? If it is to prevent pregnancy? I could take a vasectomy, (I'm 57) or she can tie her tubes or something. She will be at an age where she either do not want or can't make any children. |
|
|
|
In todays day and age it is wise to both get tested, It takes just a short time to get the go ahead or stop sign. If pregnacy is what your trying to avoid, somebody is going to have to either use a condom or use birth control.
|
|
|