Long story short ...really love this girl cuz she's awesome and cute but I found out that she has a BF. Now we're all friendly and **** but it's kinda hard not to want to put my arms round her.

It's very hard to find people like her who are both attractive AND who click so that talking with them doesn't feel like a chore. Everytime I find this kind of amazing girl it's been one who has a BF which is fine by me but I'd also like to have someone who I can say is mine

It sounds like you're truly into her. Seeing as she already has a man, try distancing yourself a bit. Just try seeing her less. The danger would be that you try to encourage her into having an affair with you. So ignore those sexual impulses, because you might aswell save them for someone else. Friends is fine. As long as you treat it as exactly that. Also, try to wean yourself from thinking about her. If one day she happens to be single again, then you can feel free to have her. Just be really sensible about it, otherwise you'll end up teasing yourself. Be your own best friend. You don't have to stop talking to her. Just force yourself to stop thinking about her in that way.

Most people worth having are already involved, or they don't want to be bothered. Sad, but it happens. I agree with the other poster, back off from her, and respect her relationship. She can't be the only cute awesome girl in the world, I hope you find another one soon.

oh lol that's fine, I'm perfectly fine with shutting off the 'sex' thing, as someone who doesn't always meet 'friends' it's hard for me to turn away one of the few people who does click, even if she's a hot blonde.

Sucks that there aren't more people out there who aren't taken like her.

I would just be who you are around her and who knows man. Girls talk to each other a lot. Maybe one of her cute friends may be single and well you know the old saying "birds of a feather flock together".

haha been thinking the same thing. She likes to be playful and poke me and stuff but here's the thing, I've been in trouble for, without knowing, going out with this one girl whose apparently not so ex ex-bf ended up stalking me around campus everywhere, so yeah I love her to death but cheating on ppl is something I'd rather not do.

But thanks for the advice guys cheers, yeah at the very least she sometimes gets me free beer at the bar she works so all good :P