ex'es are ex'es for a reason--time does not change the core of who they
are, or who you are for that matter. Always be true to yourself.

You mean cow-paw there don't ya pilgram?


HI.

i tried to fix it enough while i was in it so i wouldn't change a thing.
you can't fix everything, sometimes you just have to leave it alone

nope... i dont want the old hoe back.

let the past be the past, I don't want to go back there, I live in the
now and hope for the future

true that.

I would say I wouldn't either because I were right LOL

It's kind-of like that robin williams movie, where he to hell and gets
his wife and takes her to heaven with him and then what do they do? Go
back and start a new life all over again. Now that to me is nuts. I
would have just been-in heaven?

nope....for what...in the long run u gonna kick ueself in the ass and
ask y did i try...EX is an ex for a reason

On my first relationship after my first divorce...if I could go back and
do it over again...I would never, ever, have gotten into it if I knew
what was going to be down the road, the cheating, lying and
stealing...plus I would not be where I am today...on my way back to what
I had before him....was stupid when I did it.

I know what ya mean, SASSY? Same road?

I know what ya mean, SASSY? Same road?

I'd of moved on sooner!!!!!! HAHAHA!! I've learned that I'm gana hurt
whether I walk away when I know I should, or wait and hope for the best.
So why put myself thru anything that isnt right for myself anymore.

Well CHUCKEE, I had no reason to move on, IT was all good on the outside
I thought life was fine for the first 5 years, then I suspected she was
cheating but still did'nt know for sure? SOOOOOOOO I waited until I knew
for sure b4 saying I CAN'T DO THIS NO-MORE? SO yes if it sucked I
would-of split alot sooner? But I also know that the degree of HEART in
each oe of us differs ALOT?

Oh IAM, I was just referring to myself, believe it or not, I hadnt even
read everyones thoughts except the actual question posted, I know,
shocking!! So sorry hun, just referring to how I would handle my own
relationship if I had to do it again. I'm drinking a bottle, yes a
bottle of wine this evening, so if I come across a bit different, well,
thats just ganna have to be my excuse for all the folks that hate MY OWN
opinions, even though, they continue to share their silly thoughts. Not
all silly, but you know the ones I'm talking 'bout.

yes ai would go back and make it better.

I would put his ass in the pshy hospital
and beat his ass,
And if it gets good
to me i willpimp slap his puck ass
Thats how i will make it better for him and me?????????????

No I wouldn't even attempt to fix it...why open "PANDORA'S BOX?"

If I could go back to my last relationship I wouldn't have invested so
much money in that bitch ass. I was always always helping him. He wanted
shoes, he got it. He had car trouble, I was there. He needed a down
payment, just name the price and I'd work overtime to get it for him.
But I was gullible as hell. He was my first love, my first everything,
and I didn't wanna be that typical female that always takes. I wanted to
be that support he could go to n knew I was his down-ass chick. But f%#$
that! I'm wiser now, I aint givin a man a DAMN thing! I bust my ass for
what I got n I dont get no hand-outs. I don't ask for no favors, and I
giv NOTHIN in return!

Holla!

I understand the question, but the fact is you can't go back. So why
think about what could have been prevented and just focuse on what not
to do the next time.

true Bender... but u liv n u learn, hoepfully. they say the past
repeats itself if ur not careful... gotta c ur mistakes so u wont make
em agin, namean?