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Topic: my dad died august 9th
rebel_woman07's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:20 PM
as i said my dad died august 9th at the age of 41 and i dont know how to deal with it bc i was a total daddy's girl any one got any suggestions

joe1973's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:24 PM
REMEMBER THAT HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE.BUT HE IS STILL WITH YOU IN BOTH YOUR HEART AND IN YOUR MEMORIES.

rebel_woman07's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:27 PM
thanks joe

eaglewoods's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:27 PM
JOE U COULD NOT HAVE SAID IT BETTER ::::::::flowerforyou flowerforyou 4 U REBEL WOMAN

evad28's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:27 PM
yes hon,he is watching over you.
thinking of you when you think of him.
sorry to hear of the loss

just remember the good times you had together andit should get you through

Puffins1958's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:28 PM
First of all...I want to tell you how sorry I am, that you lost him at such an early age. My God, he was such a young man. I think talking about it, might help you cope. I would talk to someone in your church to see if there is a bereavement group available. If not, I would suggest a therapist that deals with death of loved ones. I hope this helps you in some way.

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mnhiker's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:28 PM
My dad died a few years ago.

Your dad still lives on in
your memories of him. flowerforyou

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:30 PM
he will be watching over you forever.

jkkabtje's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:30 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your dad.. He may not be with you physically, but he's in your heart, and I am sure he is watching you from heaven and has a smile on his face.

SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:31 PM
I am so sorry for your lose. I lost my dad when I was just 21. He was only 52. I understand your pain. You will get through this time. It takes time to heal. Just be strong and hang in there girl. my prayers are with you.flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:34 PM
flowerforyou it will always hurt a little but you will always have the memories of the both of you to help you through the hard times when you miss him most just remember he loved you and will always be with you in spiritflowerforyou flowerforyou

knightless's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:36 PM
Everyone has said it all...so hang in there, time does help ease the pain. You will always have him in your heart, and he is with you always.

kevin584's photo
Sat 08/25/07 07:42 PM
I know how you feel. My father passed away 13 years ago this month. I know it hurts now but just think of all the good memories and great times you had with him. Rest assured he's in a much better place and just know that he loves you always.

MicheleNC's photo
Sat 08/25/07 08:02 PM
Rebel-Not to sound harsh, but you will never get over it. My dad died 4 years ago. I, too, was a total Daddy's girl. I still feel the need to call him to fix everything that goes wrong. It does get easier with time. You can still talk to him and you will know his answers in your heart. Tell him too find my Dad and he can join in on the card game up there.

Email me if you need to talk.

Hugs, M

no photo
Sat 08/25/07 08:03 PM
I'm very sorry to hear that you lost your dad. I'm sure it's an extremely difficult thing to deal with. Although he is no longer there physically, he will always be with you in spirit and will live on forever in your memories of him. May God bless you and bring you peace.

NANCYM1957's photo
Sat 08/25/07 08:34 PM

I'm very sorry to hear about youe Dad
He will always be in your heart,

My Dad died when i was 11 yrs old, so i do know
what your going thur,as i was very close to him too.

God Bless you and your family

no photo
Sat 08/25/07 08:44 PM
:heart: Rebel it will take a long time to stop crying at every show, movie, or life situration that deals with DAD and DAUGHTER
You loved him and him you, he is out of this place, and a waits
you in heaven, but he is in no pain, and will be with YOU forever in your heart, and memories...:heart: flowerforyou

I wish I could give you a magic pill that would take away your pain,,,,but even if I did have that pill, I wouldn't give it to you.
Because life is filled with all kinds of pain, and LOSS is one of GOD's greatest tests. so through your pain, your dad will
share your tears, from above...It just takes TIME to pass for TIME to HEAL..:heart: flowerforyou Good luck in finding peace.

Rapunzel's photo
Sat 08/25/07 09:01 PM
Dear rebel,

Oh, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad passing on..:cry:
You are still so young, and he was such a young man still.
What a tragedy...:cry: My heart breaks for you:heart:
I feel so bad, Dear Girl...Dear Lady
I still have my Dad and he is 82... Life just isn't fair..

I've been widowed though and I know how painful that is...
In my experience with losing loved ones to death,
I believe that You have to allow yourself as much time
to grieve as you need to...

Don't let anyone tell you you need to get over it sooner than you are ready to...I don't think you ever do fully get over
the loss of someone so dear to you...But time does have a way of providing some healing... And , it does take a long time ...

But find some good people who really love you and spend time with them... And follow your heart & do what you think is best..

WE love you very much little Sister, you are in our prayers....

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WhispersandWinks's photo
Sat 08/25/07 09:07 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, sweetie. Not only do you have your memories of him, you have his legacy. You are flesh of his flesh and you share many likenesses you may not now even be aware of. One day you may look in the mirror and see that you raise your eyebrow like he did, or have a freckle on your forehead just where he had one. You will begin to recognize his manorisms in yourself such as the way you set your shoes beside the couch when you come in from work, or the way you turn the cuff of your shirt up before you eat ribs. You'll never be without him. Never.

Too, it is very healing to journal. Try it. Express your thoughts, feelings, fears, and hopes.

God bless you,
Teresa

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 08/25/07 09:15 PM
I'm sorry you have to go through this is very hard indeed lost my Dad will be 4 years this Jan he died of a Massive Heart Attack when he went to go lay down to take a nap. It is really hard to deal with.

Wish I had magic words for you but there are none it takes time. Within time the pain will ease it does not go away but it does get easier as time goes on. Always rememebr the good times the smiles the little things he said or did. The times that made you laugh that is what helps me.

Just remember he will always be in your heart. When someone we love becomes a memory that memory becomes a treasury. Our treasures we hold close to our hearts and will be there till we take our last breath.

That is one thing in life no one can take away from us is our memoriesflowerforyou bigsmile flowerforyou

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