Topic: (Gay)Body is so important to have a good BF ?
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Thu 08/08/13 04:47 PM
Hey guy this is the first time for me Hello and nice to meet u all

Of couse i'm Gay i'm 22 yo i'm overweight (83kg high170cm) i never have boyfriend ,boyfriend for me is just someone who take care u and u take care him ,hangout,movie,travel,sex,honest isn't important he must be rich ,more handsome jus someone enough for someone but yhe most of gay they always find sex or look body first i try to find in gay app but when they know i don't have hot body they ignore me ;-( they don't want to know me i just have to talk who is good person they always look kind of person but they look my body first
Sometime I feel lonely i try to find but i found it make me hurt more and more they don't want to know inside about me because my body is not perfect

Thanks everyone for read this u can comment everything if u want and sorry with my English i'm not well

Nice to meet u and Have a good day

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Thu 08/08/13 04:49 PM
Welcome and best wishesflowers

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Thu 08/08/13 07:48 PM
Well of course they look at your body they are men after all!! Having a healthy ripped athletically awesome body isn't just about what other people will think about you it's an integral part of having a healthy ripped athletically awesome self esteem, I'll bet if you stop eating meat and do MODERATE exercise daily you'll be fit in no time.(I also recommend trying women too, they're really not that bad! I'm not trying to change you but having a varied 'diet' is important if you really want to be healthy) :)

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Thu 08/08/13 07:58 PM

Well of course they look at your body they are men after all!! Having a healthy ripped athletically awesome body isn't just about what other people will think about you it's an integral part of having a healthy ripped athletically awesome self esteem, I'll bet if you stop eating meat and do MODERATE exercise daily you'll be fit in no time.(I also recommend trying women too, they're really not that bad! I'm not trying to change you but having a varied 'diet' is important if you really want to be healthy) :)


They're really not that bad? surprised

Not much of a sweet talker there...are ya? slaphead

rofl rofl rofl


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Thu 08/08/13 08:05 PM

Hey guy this is the first time for me Hello and nice to meet u all

Of couse i'm Gay i'm 22 yo i'm overweight (83kg high170cm) i never have boyfriend ,boyfriend for me is just someone who take care u and u take care him ,hangout,movie,travel,sex,honest isn't important he must be rich ,more handsome jus someone enough for someone but yhe most of gay they always find sex or look body first i try to find in gay app but when they know i don't have hot body they ignore me ;-( they don't want to know me i just have to talk who is good person they always look kind of person but they look my body first
Sometime I feel lonely i try to find but i found it make me hurt more and more they don't want to know inside about me because my body is not perfect

Thanks everyone for read this u can comment everything if u want and sorry with my English i'm not well

Nice to meet u and Have a good day


While Daddy there may not have his own Romeo on tonight...tongue2

...he has a valid point about health, fitness and confidence. :thumbsup:

Take a step back and reevaluate your priorities dear. Is it better to wish for a hot bod in the moment for THEM, or to have a fit bod for YOURSELF for life? flowerforyou


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Thu 08/08/13 09:34 PM
YOU KNOW WE ALL FEEL THE SAME WAY, SOME JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO COME OUT OF THERE SHELL. HANG TOUGH, YOU WILL FIND THAT ESPECIALLY ONE WHEN IT TIME. DONT EVER DOUBT YOURSELF. DONT DOUBT YOUR SIZE, LOVE IS ALL SHAPE, SIZE, AND COLOR, AND TO HAVE LOVE YOU MUST BE HAPPY WITH WHO YOU ARE, GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND

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Thu 08/08/13 09:46 PM
WOW THAT SOME REALLY BULL ****. WHAT YOU JUST DID MADE A PERSON NOT WANT TO SPEAK OUT.....IF A PERSON IS TRUE AND REALLY WANT TO MEET ANY SEX THAT CANT LOOK AT YOU AND SAY WOW WHAT MY FRIEND GONA SAY. FIRST OF ALL THEY WHERE NOT YOUR FRIEND . YOUR HAPPY. WE ALL NEED TO GROW-UP AND REALIZE WE ARE ALL GUILTY OF LOVE. HOPE I SAID IT RIGHT LOVE ALL PEACE
Well of course they look at your body they are men after all!! Having a healthy ripped athletically awesome body isn't just about what other people will think about you it's an integral part of having a healthy ripped athletically awesome self esteem, I'll bet if you stop eating meat and do MODERATE exercise daily you'll be fit in no time.(I also recommend trying women too, they're really not that bad! I'm not trying to change you but having a varied 'diet' is important if you really want to be healthy) :)

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Fri 08/09/13 04:52 AM
Hey, sweetie... your so young! :cry:
but ... I do understand your plight!

My best friend came out in high school, So I have been surrounded by my sisters for many years.

YES! the gay world is much much more superficial than the straight one!

BUT because you are so young, you have time to build you from the inside out. While, it's true We ALL notice the body 1st, but if the nice body is surrounding a F*kd up person than what good is it?

Make friends..plenty of friends in the gay AND straight world, all while going to the gym, maybe find a friend to go to the gym with you and I promise everything else will fall into place.

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Fri 08/09/13 06:10 PM
My nephew came out at 18 he was a bit over weight but such a good and kind spirit. Just be true to yourself and in time you will find someone. My nephew is now 23 and finally met someone special but made some great friendships along the way. Good luck

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Sat 08/17/13 04:33 PM
Thx everyone u r very nice

:):)