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Just a bit of advice here. I suggest you don't mention being a billionaire, or having lots of money, because the gold diggers will be in there like a shot, if they know that. Instead, maybe mention that you work hard. You don't want to end up on a forum, a few years on, telling us how some woman had used you for your money. Good luck ;)
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Edited by
KLWizard
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Fri 08/16/13 12:23 AM
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Thanks for the concern, but I'm an obsessive equalist. If some woman gets money out of me, she will either be doing it illegally, in which case, I can prosecute, or she will have given something equally valuable to me.
She would regret it anyways, because I'm not going to make much money until I find someone to have a stable relationship with, anyways. People like me are the reason that married couples tend to split the wealth equally between them when they separate. There's just no telling how much the other person is truly responsible, even if they put no obvious effort into it. Surely someone reading this thread might find your advice worthwhile. Hey, I just had an idea... I've been reading websites about wealthy business women getting house husbands... Maybe it's worth a shot. Anyone think I have the looks for it? :D I'm thinking of a way to make a romantic profile to lure in the less submissive hard working sort of woman.... I don't really care about wealth, but whoever makes the decision is getting a guaranteed long term deal. Sorry internet people, but I don't really want cyber-anything. I'm just not that social. I prefer to write intellectual dissertations on complex and obscure subjects rather than write the typical one-liners over and over forever to someone I will never meet. It would be more worthwhile to leave the house, but I'm not really ready for that yet. :D |
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Glad you read what I mentioned. I was mainly warning you about the gold digger thing, because I can be quite the money grabber, whenever mine run's out. I'm kidding ;) Have you tried a dating site for millionaires? Or elite site's? Seeing as you want a hard-working type. I know hard workers can be from anywhere, but I get that them being wealthy, show's they can earn a living without relying on others. I get that.
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You contradicted yourself by going on about the risk with gold diggers being too great and then saying that you aren't worried about that at all.
It's rather patronising to say that all you are going to get on here are "typical one liners". I personally have chatted with intelligent successful women on here that have a lot to say for themselves. Also, it's possible to meet a woman without actually leaving your house but you need a degree of charm for that and if you are weird or creepy you are only ever going to get any interest from weirdos. You are a young guy with apparently little or no experience with women and it doesn't matter what you score on some personality test if your social skills are poor. You aren't a millionaire because if you were you wouldn't be on here unless it's just for the trollings. I don't think that you really want advice at all but I can understand that living as a recluse will make anyone go a bit mental. If you aren't going to go out to meet women in the real world the internet is pretty much the only way to do it. I don't think that it would do you any harm to try to find someone on here or on another site that will talk to you. Even if it doesn't lead to a meeting you really do need to learn how to build friendships with ladies because that's how it works and it's not some sort of business deal unless they are hookers. |
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Well put Tawt.....:ouch:
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@ Shy_Emo_chick, ... funny. I looked into the rich peoples dating sites, but, surprise surprise, the customer base is 99% rich men and uneducated young girls who want to be lazy for the rest of their lives.
@ TawtStrat, haha yeah, a short summary of a summary, a nice brutish, glib way to describe myself so that nobody would be interested... I never said I was super rich, that's why I'm not worried about gold diggers. It's not difficult to understand that I'm planning for my future by insisting on getting a relationship now instead of when I actually am rich, thereby dodging the golddigger bullet, so to speak. On a lighter note, I find it both amusing and useful when you try to paraphrase my statements, so feel free to keep it up. I have noticed a bit of freudian emotional undertones to my statements, and I'm trying to eliminate those. Again, with the reading too far into my statements and misunderstanding them completely... All these kids with their phones and short attention spans only want to read one-liners, little romantic lies that go back and forth, things that just serve to boost their self esteem and ego because they have nothing else to live for. Again, real life shows that there are two reasons women get into relationships: they either spend enough time around someone to develop an emotional attachment, or they make a decision based on their assessment of economic value. By testing I mean in life, not standardized tests. I know they're mostly pointless, but test-taking is one of my strong points, so I enjoy filling them out. :) @klc, Thanks for the very sensitive advice. Unfortunately, I don't have the natural ability to decide if I like someone or not, so I have to analyze and test. It happens anyways, just not consciously for most people. I try not to test anything more than what anyone would subconsciously test. There are many levels of acceptance. About moving in, I don't agree. Houses are nothing special, it's the people you're with that make a home, and that can be anywhere. What I was thinking when I wrote it was that a woman could rent here and see if she is comfortable with the situation before moving on to anything serious, if her circumstances suit her to do that. I'm not saying that purely text-based relationships are invalid, they're just not for me. It's been very educational, thanks everyone! :D I'll probably edit my profile over the weekend... check back after Sunday if you're curious... |
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