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| Topic: Is it normal or abnormal to pretend at first date | |
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If normal but for hw long
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Depends on what you mean by "pretend"....
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart
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No, I don't think that's normal and I always find that you learn a lot of truth about someone on a first date, particularly if you have only chatted on the internet prior to the meeting.
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It is never normal to pretend to be something or someone your not to another....Be real or get out of my way is my motto~~
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 thats great idea Tawtstrat
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 i lyk that you are bold
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart How have you won her heart by making her fall for a figment of your imagination? She is now in love with the invisible man. It seems to me you've just invented your own competition. 
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Lying will only be seen as intentionally deceitful when the person you lied to finds out.
It's a bad idea. Even if it's just little lies, you will be more likely to lie about other topics that won't be as miniscule. Then it will come back to bite you as a lot of lies do. Just ask Obama and his administration. They know all about lies and their downsides. Be truthful and you will be respected for it even if it's not what someone else wants to hear. 
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart do you really think lying to your date is a good thing? 
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart How have you won her heart by making her fall for a figment of your imagination? She is now in love with the invisible man. It seems to me you've just invented your own competition.
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart It's not normal to lie to impress, but from personal experience I can tell you it happens ....A LOT  and is usually a set up to fail..."Pretending" as in putting your best foot forward in an effort to make a good first impression because you are attracted enough to want to continue getting to know someone is, in my opinion and based on personal experience, pretty normal during a first date...
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Lying will only be seen as intentionally deceitful when the person you lied to finds out. It's a bad idea. Even if it's just little lies, you will be more likely to lie about other topics that won't be as miniscule. Then it will come back to bite you as a lot of lies do. Just ask Obama and his administration. They know all about lies and their downsides. Be truthful and you will be respected for it even if it's not what someone else wants to hear.
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
IMO, lying is never good in any situation...what if someone starts lying to their date, then finds out they are the "one"... not a great start, huh... |
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'normal' as in common? dunno. I gotta think it happens some. I was about to go out with someone, then caught him in a lie. It was about his age and only a couple years, but it meant, to me, that he was dishonest. I wouldnt have cared that he was his true age. I did care however that he was not trustworthy. How could I possibly continue with someone I dont trust? 
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart It's not normal to lie to impress, but from personal experience I can tell you it happens ....A LOT and is usually a set up to fail..."Pretending" as in putting your best foot forward in an effort to make a good first impression because you are attracted enough to want to continue getting to know someone is, in my opinion and based on personal experience, pretty normal during a first date...
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
IMO, lying is never good in any situation...what if someone starts lying to their date, then finds out they are the "one"... not a great start, huh... |
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Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
IMO, lying is never good in any situation...what if someone starts lying to their date, then finds out they are the "one"... not a great start, huh... |
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