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Topic: Next Door Neighbor
tjulian4880 Joined Wed 07/31/13 Posts: 77	Sat 08/03/13 03:02 PM
At first you may not realize your next door neighbor is a heap of hotness!!! But, when you see the bags being packed in the car, now there's one less car in the driveway and the fact is, the person next door is no longer filing joint tax returns, "glad to be rid of the devil"...what would you do to win this person's attention, admiration or affection? Me!!!... I'd cut the lawn, occasionally chat with them as they walk the dog thru the neighborhood, put the trash cans back by the door where they belong and I would keep a sharp eye out - peeping out my window to maybe learn their movements, their habits, so that when the time comes to make my move, I'd know a little something about the person. Is that STALKING!!!???

EdwardCB Joined Mon 07/29/13 Posts: 782	Sat 08/03/13 04:10 PM
At first you may not realize your next door neighbor is a heap of hotness!!! But, when you see the bags being packed in the car, now there's one less car in the driveway and the fact is, the person next door is no longer filing joint tax returns, "glad to be rid of the devil"...what would you do to win this person's attention, admiration or affection? Me!!!... I'd cut the lawn, occasionally chat with them as they walk the dog thru the neighborhood, put the trash cans back by the door where they belong and I would keep a sharp eye out - peeping out my window to maybe learn their movements, their habits, so that when the time comes to make my move, I'd know a little something about the person. Is that STALKING!!!??? As long as u don't steal her panties off the clothesline I think your ok

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Sat 08/03/13 04:34 PM
Why peep out the window? Just sit a video camera near your window..Then when someone tries to do something stupid like kick over her trash or steal her mail, you can show her proof and be her hero...Thats what i would do

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sat 08/03/13 04:47 PM
peepinghuh out my window to maybe learn their movements, their habits, so that when the time comes to make my move,banana I'd know a little something about the person. Is that heart STALKING!!!???love Or serial killer...

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Sat 08/03/13 04:53 PM Edited by badguy1 on Sat 08/03/13 04:53 PM
Any woman who reads what you just said would be filing a restraining order..I would have just asked her out the 1st time i spoke to her. If she's interested, great news. If not, i can go on about my business, but still be respectful to her whenever i see her. Never know, she could change her mind and go out on a date. Just gotta approach it the right way

tjulian4880 Joined Wed 07/31/13 Posts: 77	Sat 08/03/13 05:21 PM
Cameras is certainly out of the question!!!!The last thing I hope to do is leave a trail of my spying

tjulian4880 Joined Wed 07/31/13 Posts: 77	Sat 08/03/13 05:24 PM
Thats a tricky situation. Can you run into her at the market, or something? I would just try to be friendly at first, since you live next door. Like dating someone you work with. If it doesnt go well, where do you go to get away? She may not be interested in dating for a while from the scenario you described, but everybuddys different, who knows? This thing has been going on now for 2 years and finally, she offers me to come and sit with her and her mother on the patio one particular routine day during the week. But, still, I'm afraid I could be setting myself up for something I can't quite handle. And, like you said, where can I run if things don't go well?

tjulian4880 Joined Wed 07/31/13 Posts: 77	Sat 08/03/13 05:25 PM
...serial killer Come on now, don't be ridiculous!!!

tjulian4880 Joined Wed 07/31/13 Posts: 77	Sat 08/03/13 05:29 PM
The restraining order.... Guess what guy? I approached her and told what my madness was and that it was not fare to secretly manipulate my way into her life. She offered me to sit in with her and her mom on the patio. I was shocked!!!

EdwardCB Joined Mon 07/29/13 Posts: 782	Sat 08/03/13 05:31 PM
Roflmfao. " it puts the lotion on its skin or it gets the hose again"

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Sat 08/03/13 05:45 PM Edited by badguy1 on Sat 08/03/13 05:50 PM
The restraining order.... Guess what guy? I approached her and told what my madness was and that it was not fare to secretly manipulate my way into her life. She offered me to sit in with her and her mom on the patio. I was shocked!!! Well it seems like you dont have to peep out the window, do you? You're good 2 go, just take it slow and when she's comfortable, she'll let you know.

EdwardCB Joined Mon 07/29/13 Posts: 782	Sat 08/03/13 05:52 PM
The restraining order.... Guess what guy? I approached her and told what my madness was and that it was not fare to secretly manipulate my way into her life. She offered me to sit in with her and her mom on the patio. I was shocked!!! Well it seems like you dont have to peep out the window, do you? You're good 2 go, just take it slow and when she's comfortable, she'll let you know. Maybe she just feels sorry for the guy that sits there all day peeping through the blinds at her lol, or she could be trying to set him up with her mother?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 08/03/13 10:06 PM
good luck' sounds like u made a new friend :)