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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sun 07/28/13 12:42 PM
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When there's a lag in the conversation, I just assume they're either busy, not in the mood to chat, don't have much to say at the moment or have been hit by a train. 
or their married....usually the best reason for erratic behavior on here (as far as disappearing, weird excuses, and sudden changes) Exactly why I prefer to think they've been hit by a train.  
Darn that was vicious! You guys are a bad influence. I was a sweet person when I got here. 
I seriously doubt I've encountered a married man here. I message with very few people anyway. 
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sun 07/28/13 12:41 PM
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When there's a lag in the conversation, I just assume they're either busy, not in the mood to chat, don't have much to say at the moment or have been hit by a train.
or their married....usually the best reason for erratic behavior on here (as far as disappearing, weird excuses, and sudden changes) Exactly why I prefer to think they've been hit by a train.
when wifey walks in....off goes the chat window...no warning.... |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sun 07/28/13 12:43 PM
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Have you ever been chatting with someone and the conversation just stopped? Have you ever been the one who decided not to continue? If so, what were your reasons? Did you just get bored with the conversation, or did the person rub you the wrong way? Did you sense something about them that turned you off? Or did they not seem to be reciprocating your interest? I usually end the chat when the conversation seems to be only about sex and not getting to know me. Makes me feel like a piece of meat and shows the man has no respect for me as a person. |
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What causes chat to fizzle
Have you ever been chatting with someone and the conversation just stopped ?
My microphone died damn it ! 
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When there's a lag in the conversation, I just assume they're either busy, not in the mood to chat, don't have much to say at the moment or have been hit by a train.
2kids: ^^^^this. Lag in conversation....being ignored Excuses. Talking about other women without relevance? I go to reply to a post and someone/s always pretty much say what I WAS going to say (more or less) and yeah, these two have it covered lol That's because I know what all of you are going to say before you say it. Spooky huh?  
oh you don't even know when i'm joking, prove it! what am I thinking now? 
that shouldn't be hard You're absolutely right. I actually have learned that you're usually joking. That leaves it difficult to figure out when you're being serious.
I don't think it's that hard Pony. But it's early still. 
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I had 2 times when I really couldn't believe the conversation just abruptly stopped, never to be again. Both times there was an instant rapport, a great conversation, and really fun repartee. You know what I mean? such a fun exchange you can't wait for the conversation to continue? and both times was over a several day period, then just completely disappeared! I definitely came to the conclusion there probably was a wife in the picture, so disappointing! but whatcha gonna do?
As for women not bothering to reply to email, speaking for myself, if someone writes a sincere and "relvent" message, I will respond even if not interested in the person, but, and don't know about you other ladies, but I get a ton of these, Simply a "Hi!" or "ur pretty," or complete non-conversation starters, I just ignore,if they don't put any effort into communicating, why should I? Lastly, I'm sure many of the ladies have experienced this one. You respond to be polite, express that you just don't think you are a match as nice as possible and they just keep hounding you with why not me? give me a chance, etc.. It does seem simplest to just not respond and I would agree, it does seem to be accepted online dating protocol, the message is pretty clear, they "just aren't that into you" |
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When there's a lag in the conversation, I just assume they're either busy, not in the mood to chat, don't have much to say at the moment or have been hit by a train.
or their married....usually the best reason for erratic behavior on here (as far as disappearing, weird excuses, and sudden changes) Exactly why I prefer to think they've been hit by a train.
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