Topic: Kinda a waste don't ya think?
Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 07/17/13 12:04 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 07/17/13 12:07 PM
I always search Men profiles and find it flustrating when so many on here are not active in over a month. indifferent I have chatted with a few Men here, but nothing promising. None are on these FORUMS.

sybariticguy's photo
Wed 07/17/13 12:09 PM
In the vague hope of finding a quality person it is ncesaary to provide said person with some reason to support their efforts to respond. the unwillingness to invite others is more a function of personal deficiences as in not being articulate, fear of potential rejection,& having to read incessant useless resposes. If a person is willing to write something accurate and descriptive they must also endure the responses from those who may not share that perspective. many are sent but sadly only a few are chosen.. If you cant spare the ink you are likely to get the blank page...

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Wed 07/17/13 12:16 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 07/17/13 12:32 PM

the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:

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Wed 07/17/13 12:35 PM
I am a picky shoppersurprised

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Wed 07/17/13 12:54 PM
I'd at least like them to have interests in their profile so I know if we'll have things in common to talk about.

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Wed 07/17/13 12:59 PM


the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:


I don't know about you, but I don't just squeeze the fruit....i never truly know if the fruit is any good until i bite it! :laughing:

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Wed 07/17/13 01:02 PM



the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:


I don't know about you, but I don't just squeeze the fruit....i never truly know if the fruit is any good until i bite it! :laughing:


Ain't that the truth LOL tongue2

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 07/17/13 01:03 PM

I am a picky shoppersurprised


heck yeah, we are:

the box is caved in!

the package is opened & someone probably just fingered the meat

bad eggs

past the expiration date

mouldy cheese

cottage cheese

flat muffins

dry dounuts

Leakey jugs

just some food for thoughttongue2 no puns intended:angel: ooor....were theydevil

{{{{hey 2KM}}}} waving :thumbsup:

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Wed 07/17/13 01:05 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Wed 07/17/13 01:09 PM


I am a picky shoppersurprised


heck yeah, we are:

the box is caved in!

the package is opened & someone probably just fingered the meat

bad eggs

past the expiration date

mouldy cheese

cottage cheese

flat muffins

dry dounuts

Leakey jugs

just some food for thoughttongue2 no puns intended:angel: ooor....were theydevil

{{{{hey 2KM}}}} waving :thumbsup:




(((((((Ride)))))):heart: smooched flowerswaving

I will see youll later my head is hurting.. frown tears

isaac_dede's photo
Wed 07/17/13 01:08 PM


the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.

Theres a difference between nothing but "I'll tell ya later" and stating "everything". Cant you find an 'in between"? What could I possibly be interested in saying to you if I have NO idea what you're interested in. No idea where we may find compatibility.

If you must leave it blank, be prepared to send lots of lengthy 'get to know me' emails to every woman.


I you think leaving it blank protects you from a gal not finding a reason to talk to you, then you have missed the mark. 'empty' is a very good reason not to talk to you.


I think profiles are honestly a waste of time, as many have said they are places where people try to talk themselves up as much as possible often is not an accurate reflection of who they actually are. I would rather someone just have an interests section, where they choose things they are into. Such as a drop down menu with sub-categories for example instead of saying "into sports" click sports, asked what type, and an action. Example..click sports, click baseball, click an action "play, watch, go to games, etc" that way instead of an interest saying "i'm a sporty girl" you know then what their interests are...that's about all I need to decide if i want to speak with someone or not. interests can easily take the place of profiles at least for me.

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Wed 07/17/13 02:01 PM


the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:


Snorting coffee out of my nose thank you pony !
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA !

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Wed 07/17/13 02:01 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Wed 07/17/13 02:04 PM
WTF ?

noway

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Wed 07/17/13 02:03 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Wed 07/17/13 02:05 PM
pitchfork oops

Well THAT was strange ?
I know i only hit the POST button once ?

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Wed 07/17/13 02:05 PM




the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:





I don't know about you, but I don't just squeeze the fruit....i never truly know if the fruit is any good until i bite it! :laughing:


Ain't that the truth LOL tongue2




So true, so true my friends!
but unfortunately we're limited until we invest
that's why I like shoping at places they give you introduction samples up front....
.....and in the back:laughing:

its all about the bag appeal, but the content is the art of deception (the hook)
its like the game show let's make a deal, blind deals, yes I agree you have to meet the people for love interests, its just a fools game!
for internet friends in the forums, its great as you can enjoy people that you may
be so different from otherwise and still make great conections.
it allows you to bridge, as you set you own limits, take what you want, when you want

and leave the rest, you can't do that in a living room with limited interest.

(((( msmyka )))))

you can lick my lolly but if you bite it bent it or offend it ! spock I'll be mad!:laughing:

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 07/17/13 02:13 PM



the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:


Snorting coffee out of my nose thank you pony !
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA !

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


:laughing: right on! I got ya big guy:thumbsup:

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Wed 07/17/13 02:29 PM




the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:


I don't know about you, but I don't just squeeze the fruit....i never truly know if the fruit is any good until i bite it! :laughing:


Ain't that the truth LOL tongue2

quiet you :p

ladyliz1417's photo
Wed 07/17/13 02:37 PM

Im really attracted to men who fill profiles with :
'ill tell ya later'
or the equally sexy :
'no answer, no answer, no answer, no answer, no answer, no answer'

But if I could find me a man who seems to be angry about women and how they dont know what they want, and how he has a job and a home, I would just plain fall down.

Dreamy. I guess I'll just have to keep a lookin.

In reality, they are probably doing you a favor. The lack of ability to communicate may mean they are not a match for someone as interesting and interested in discussing things as yourself.

I soooooooooo agree!!!!

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Thu 07/18/13 02:05 PM

...but I wonder if canucksfan saw my bluejackets sweatshirt??drool


No I haven't, what's boojackets? :tongue:

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Thu 07/18/13 03:24 PM





the reason we say tell ya later is that way you can't find reasons not to talk to us. ....besides if you state everything in a profile where is the fun conversations of 'getting to know you' type conversations. And come on let's be honest if looks didn't matter at all no one would be here. Everyone would hooked up with their neighbor ugly bobby, or ugly betty down the street. Not saying that everyone needs to be a super model, but if you not attracted to someone physically, i mean not at all, doesn't matter what they say in their profile because honestly you're not going to bother reading it anyway.



yep

this is who we are, we choose our mates like we choose our groceries

and I'm not saying we have to squeeze the fruit! spock...... or am I:laughing:


I don't know about you, but I don't just squeeze the fruit....i never truly know if the fruit is any good until i bite it! :laughing:


Ain't that the truth LOL tongue2

quiet you :p


I'm with Isaac ... the avocado may look good, until you open it up to find it isn't appealing to the appetite.