twice married happy in love twice cheated on does love ever work

men cheat far more often than women, its in mens primal instinct to not be monogamous

I have never cheated in a relationship. If I am not getting what I feel I am missing out on, I look to myself to see why I am feeling these things. The change needs to come from me. I cannot expect the other person to fullfill my dreams. If it is not working then it is time to leave

really digging on your sensitivity bro

not all women cheat bro, but the common denominator in your last two failed relationships is you. what are you doing or not doing? for now, get up, dust yourself off and flirt around. it's hard not to take things personal, but if you want a relationship with a woman, i guarantee i guarantee you can learn something from the cornelius brothers and sister rose
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http://youtu.be/xJFcIvZ_X50
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Somethin' they didn't understand-a
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In the palms of my hand, now

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Now who can see? you know what I mean

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Tease her (tease her)
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You've got-ta hold her (hold her)
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(Need her)
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I'm gonna treat her like a lad-ay
She give into me, uh-huh

Now who can see?
You know what I mean
Oh you gotta a treat her like a lad-ay
(You got-ta, got-ta treat her like)
Um-hum, all the best you can do

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You got-ta treat her like a lad-ay
She give into you...

I couldnt of said it any better myself

Yes, they're kind of like Black Widows with Velociraptor's claws and teeth...Screaming like Hyena's they prance around you, stalking, hunting...Waiting to strike you at your throat.

Evil womens.

evil laugh*

To the op...hell no...I have never cheated...but been cheated on..EVERYTIME!

You should never judge a group based on the actions of a couple retarded people. Just because you have been cheated on by a couple doesn't mean that all of them will do the same.

That would be like getting a bag of grapes eating two that happen to be bad and throwing the rest out because you didn't bother to look at them.

Just remember that line from Forrest Gump. Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get. Not sure if that will help. But I'm saying it anyway. hahaha

This.

Since we're talking about cheating. Do you think masturbation counts as cheating?

"Masturbation? That's so unromantic.' I'm very romantic when I masturbate. I light a candle. Then I try to shoot it out, it's like a carnival." -Dave Attell

Nope only the women you have been with....

Actually many men/women cheat why who knows all will give different reasons....

Been cheating on never cheated... I know how to say bye bye when things are not working out....and don't believe dragging my partner through the mud due to my actions...

This is one of my favorite jokes by Joe Rogan which inspired my question of do you think masturbation is cheating.

Never found any guy worth cheating with. Anyway I'm the committed type. Nuff said.

I should be committed. But most people don't think I'm weird enough yet. Guess my moments of sanity out weigh my moments of pure blissful happy insanity.

You can't cover everyone with a blanket.

Unless it's a really big blanket and then you better make sure you want to be under that blanket with everyone else.

When the things never work....

Of cousee they don't and neither do men.

I've seen so many of my friends, male and female alike, in relationships that end in cheating. I also see them being drawn again and again to either insecure or egomaniac partners that almost insure similar or at least equally dramatic endings.

The egomaniac draws you in with their winning confident attitude..but look closer and you'll discover their capacity for love is already tapped out with self love. When they think another can benifit them more...they'll take it with little regard for your feelings.

The insecure partner seems very attractive to some, especially after having an experience with an egomaniac, as they seem to thrive ONLY on YOUR support and attention. Again, take a step back and think. It's all about YOU only because you're the one there for them now. Once you grow tired of feeding the need, they will still need and find elsewhere to feed. Your withdraw from supporting their needy nature, they will equate to withdrwing your love.

I believe we can all be both needy and self serving at times, but someone who dwells in either state is really in no position to successfully sustain a long term, give and take, mutually satisfying, ADULT relationship.

I make a point of seeking a similar balance I try to hold myself accountable for and have never had to deal with cheating from my past partners...so am convinced my views on this subject hold at least some truth.

I guess I could have just gone with...be more choosy and know them better could help.

If all the cheaters were under the same blanket would it turn into an orgy?