Topic: Rate my profile? Really?
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Sat 07/13/13 05:07 PM
Sorry but I don't get it...probably because I'm new at this.

"Rate my profile?" Isn't it like having low self-esteem and asking others for their opinions to give you a boost in self-confidence and self-worth? Because you know...no one would flat out say extremely negative things about your profile.

Hey, don't rate mine please! I wrote what I wrote on mine because that's who I am and how I feel about certain topics. If you agree, then great, maybe we can be friends and do things together or have philosophical discussions on line, or laugh about a few topics or two. If you don't agree, then have a good day and move on! There'll be plenty of other people with whom you'll get along.

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Sat 07/13/13 06:58 PM
Edited by canucksfan94 on Sat 07/13/13 07:00 PM
Everyone has their own reasons for asking for a rating. My reason has nothing to do with how I view myself or self-esteem issues but simply to do with how I'm perceived based on what I wrote.

I'm a very direct and very blunt person, those who know me well know what I mean when I speak and what is left unsaid when I make a statement.

I am used to fact that I can meet people for the first time un-intentionally piss them off because I am sometimes too direct... for me I generally don't see the point in mincing words, I say what I have to say and if someone has a problem with that, then it's too bad.

This however may not work too well in my favour on a dating site since what I write is all any girl has to go by and since the point of being here is to meet a girl that I want date and potentially have a meaningful relationship with, I'd like to make sure that my profile reflects who I am in a way that she will get me.

Since my mind doesn't work like that of most people, what I may perceive as an attractive profile may not be seen the same way in the eyes of others, so I ask and then use that feedback to improve on the way I present myself.

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Sat 07/13/13 07:20 PM
Most people ask for help and suggestions with their profiles.


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Sat 07/13/13 08:19 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Sat 07/13/13 08:20 PM
Not menoway





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