Topic: Can this really be happening?
pkh's photo
Fri 07/12/13 04:36 PM
I told you guys how I met this so called great guy and for three weeks we talked everyday and texted while he worked. Everything seemed great his emails came right out of a romance novel. Anyway it was a scam he wanted money I said I didn't have it never heard from him again. Now this was 5 days ago. So 2 days ago I get this email and I swear it could have been copied and pasted from the first guy sounded just like the things he said. I mean really who says that it s first email. But I tell the guy that and I'm not interested. He persists giving me his number I google it and it comes back in Texas what his profile says I still tell him sorry I have trust issues but thanks. He again says he's sorry I was hurt but he's honest and so forth . I say ill chat with you but that's it not looking. First question he asked was same as first guy. So I said I'm done I think your him playing me again. And guess what he deactivated right after that

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Fri 07/12/13 04:45 PM
If you were not aware of it- a lot of PUA material has been dumbed down to "cut and paste"- profiles, e-mails, texts, etc. Not everyone uses this stuff in a good way.

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Fri 07/12/13 04:51 PM
You should report him, the admins may be able to trace them by the IP address. Sorry that happened to you.

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Fri 07/12/13 04:59 PM
SSDD be careful
flowerforyou

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Fri 07/12/13 05:07 PM
SCAMSCUM :angry:

pkh's photo
Fri 07/12/13 06:15 PM
I am so done I don't trust anyone now. Sad but true

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Fri 07/12/13 06:44 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Fri 07/12/13 06:48 PM
Well the good thing is if you haven't been scammed out of money
And each time you learn a little more about how to spot them
Don't give up P we all have to learn to call it BS when it's BS
And there are many real people on the internet
You just haven't found the one for you yet
Besides doctors and lawyers and all those types are much less likely to be here
Than some multi millionaire Sheikh looking for wives
flowerforyou

:wink:
JMHO...
Good Luck !

pkh's photo
Fri 07/12/13 06:53 PM
Thanks dear, but I was content and happy before he came into my life and ill get there again. It will just make it hard if someone real should come along, because I won't let them in. But that's just my choice

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Fri 07/12/13 06:58 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Fri 07/12/13 07:13 PM
I understand you girl
Sorry for your pain...
drinks

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Fri 07/12/13 07:33 PM

Thanks dear, but I was content and happy before he came into my life and ill get there again. It will just make it hard if someone real should come along, because I won't let them in. But that's just my choice



There are so many slick cons out there... but you have to learn how to spot them.

I have tons of books by pick up artists, hypnotists, mentalists, NLP, etc. and I have educated myself on what to look for.

and still, the other day, I was sold a bill of goods by a telemarketer and bought some product that was a rip off.

If they want money, or if they are trying to sell you something, they are scamming you.

If they manipulate you by pretending to have hurt feelings they are scamming you.

If they move too fast, they are scamming you.





pkh's photo
Fri 07/12/13 07:36 PM

I understand you girl
Sorry for your pain...
drinks
thanks sweetie I appreciate that

pkh's photo
Fri 07/12/13 07:38 PM


Thanks dear, but I was content and happy before he came into my life and ill get there again. It will just make it hard if someone real should come along, because I won't let them in. But that's just my choice



There are so many slick cons out there... but you have to learn how to spot them.

I have tons of books by pick up artists, hypnotists, mentalists, NLP, etc. and I have educated myself on what to look for.

and still, the other day, I was sold a bill of goods by a telemarketer and bought some product that was a rip off.

If they want money, or if they are trying to sell you something, they are scamming you.

If they manipulate you by pretending to have hurt feelings they are scamming you.

If they move too fast, they are scamming you.





all of the above live and learn. You can bet it won't happen again

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Fri 07/12/13 08:19 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Fri 07/12/13 08:21 PM
What I hate is how they pretend to care, they flatter you, they yack it up, sometimes too much.... and they are impatient. They want to close the deal as soon as possible.

Always look for their agenda. It is the other shoe dropping.

Its a game they love to play. Hot shot salesmen love love love to make that sale even though they know they are selling you a big fat rip off. (They think of you as stupid. You are the mark.) They just want to win the game.

He thinks nothing of you, he cares nothing for you.... don't give him a second thought. He is nothing. He is on to the next "sucker."




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Sat 07/13/13 10:10 AM
I remember a time when you could actually trust most people you talked to online. I met alot of decent men from online years ago but as the years went by..the quality of the men I was meeting deteriorated.

I finally got rid of the last 2 of the red hot internet lovers [joke] and will never again meet from online again. Its really much easier to meet men offline..especially when you give them a big smile and just be genuine and real. Too bad I didnt realize this sooner [so much wasted time] This is sad that yet another good thing has become corrupted.

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Sat 07/13/13 03:49 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sat 07/13/13 03:53 PM

Thanks dear, but I was content and happy before he came into my life and ill get there again. It will just make it hard if someone real should come along, because I won't let them in. But that's just my choice


Humpdy Dumpdy sit on a wall Humpty Dumpty

had a great fall & all the Kings horses & all the kings men

said fockem! he's only an egg.

curiosity killed the cat ..quit killin' p_u_s & take your kitty out some place.:wink:

little boys sitting on Santa's knee and Santa say" what would you like for Christmas"?

then Santa says "I know as he spells out toys touching the boy on the end of the nose

with every letter said with his index finger " T-O-Y-S" boy says "no" Santa says " C-A-N-D-Y"

again touching the boy in the nose with each letter. again he answers "no" Santas all puzzled

by this & said " then what do you think you might like for christmas"? the little boy takes his index finger &

starts poping Santa back on the nose with every letter "p-u-s-s-y ! and don't tell me you don't have any

because I can smell it on your finger"!:laughing: slaphead waving :thumbsup:


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Sat 07/13/13 06:47 PM

I told you guys how I met this so called great guy and for three weeks we talked everyday and texted while he worked. Everything seemed great his emails came right out of a romance novel. Anyway it was a scam he wanted money I said I didn't have it never heard from him again. Now this was 5 days ago. So 2 days ago I get this email and I swear it could have been copied and pasted from the first guy sounded just like the things he said. I mean really who says that it s first email. But I tell the guy that and I'm not interested. He persists giving me his number I google it and it comes back in Texas what his profile says I still tell him sorry I have trust issues but thanks. He again says he's sorry I was hurt but he's honest and so forth . I say ill chat with you but that's it not looking. First question he asked was same as first guy. So I said I'm done I think your him playing me again. And guess what he deactivated right after that


I asked a man three days ago on here, if he was a scammer! I am still waiting for his answer. laugh

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Sat 07/13/13 06:50 PM


I told you guys how I met this so called great guy and for three weeks we talked everyday and texted while he worked. Everything seemed great his emails came right out of a romance novel. Anyway it was a scam he wanted money I said I didn't have it never heard from him again. Now this was 5 days ago. So 2 days ago I get this email and I swear it could have been copied and pasted from the first guy sounded just like the things he said. I mean really who says that it s first email. But I tell the guy that and I'm not interested. He persists giving me his number I google it and it comes back in Texas what his profile says I still tell him sorry I have trust issues but thanks. He again says he's sorry I was hurt but he's honest and so forth . I say ill chat with you but that's it not looking. First question he asked was same as first guy. So I said I'm done I think your him playing me again. And guess what he deactivated right after that


I asked a man three days ago on here, if he was a scammer! I am still waiting for his answer. laugh


That's a good idea to call them on it~