Topic: Sticky situation
lilredhollyhood's photo
Fri 07/12/13 12:38 AM
Edited by lilredhollyhood on Fri 07/12/13 12:41 AM


This man that I've been chatting with online for about 2 months is now saying that he's falling for me, yet we've never actually met before. I'm not sure I'm ready to let myself get so emotionally involved with someone yet. Part of me feels that he's being a tad selfish by poring these heavy feelings on me, even though I've told him I'm not ready for love. Part of me also feels that I'm pushing away a good thing as I find him attractive and he is a decent human being, however we come from very different backgrounds and personality wise, we're opposites. (He's a very sociable, out-going, people-person, while I'm introverted, quiet, and artsy). Am I wrong for letting trivial things like traits, to determine the outcome here? Any advice?

ridewytepony's photo
Fri 07/12/13 01:24 AM
he's falling for you,your saying, did you practice that
erotica on him juring " phone sex" I think I'm going to
need the "full detail" in order to assist you further
"little hoodie":wink:
ok i'll get back to the the drawings board.
but I'm thinking, "if it doesn't fit, you must aquite"!flowerforyou

lilredhollyhood's photo
Fri 07/12/13 01:32 AM
Actually I did. And it's not "practice" if you're good at something. ;) lol

ridewytepony's photo
Fri 07/12/13 02:08 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Fri 07/12/13 02:28 AM
you are obviously quite young, smart and self-assured, there's lots
of variables involved that we don't know about.

if your not ready then does that mean you have reservations?
like your in school or now you want to follow I career?

I think it's that cut n dry, "you cant hurry love & I just think you may
end up resenting it or him if you decide in the middle thats not
what you wanted.
you have to be sure, it sounds like he's been persuasive and
it making you not think straight. so I'd tell him to back his
s**t off for now.
you definitely don't want a guy thats going to be too clingy
then he's going to lean on you(dependency).....tuff call, you have to know
your ready! I wouldn't get into a long-distance thing either.
and you should meet if he's close enough or back him offwaving
you may find your answer if you meet but if you have goals for
now then follow you goals and stay the coase.
pony

ridewytepony's photo
Fri 07/12/13 02:18 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Fri 07/12/13 02:22 AM

Actually I did. And it's not "practice" if you're good at something. ;) lol


your wrong there

a Doctor has a practice he's a GP General Practitioner

pro players, practice

the rolling stones practice for a year before they go on tour
and they've been together 50 years.
on going is a practice:wink:

so technically its practice but I know what ya mean:laughing: