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Topic: Age gaps... opinions
KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Sat 07/13/13 10:37 PM Edited by KiK2me on Sat 07/13/13 11:09 PM
Age Gaps...Opinions ?

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Sat 07/13/13 10:57 PM Edited by ridewytepony on Sat 07/13/13 11:21 PM
My thoughts about it are that I've had it with so-called "mature women", with all of their baggage and pickiness. You try to be a nice guy but all you get is negativity because of stuff that happened long before you even met them. You think older women have baggage and are picky; you should have met some of the negative divorced older guys I dated. They were women haters and I could never figure out why they even were dating. You see its a two way street. There is negativity in both genders mature and younger. That is just life so there is no point in complaining about it as nothing will change. As for the topic on hand; no more than 10 years either side of my age as one lady here said; maturity is based on life experience so what experience is an 18 year old going to have that equals a 50 year old? I understand your point you made sense about the grumpy bitter guys you said you " could never figure out why they were dating" just baffling, but shouldn't the question been to yourself as to why are you dating them obviously you found more in them that they thought of woman. yes a got an opinion (((KIK))) that's too much, maybee 18 guy & 50 woman could work for short term....for a sex relationship mainly. I'll seen her before..no no no, I'm way to old for her she likes em 20 year's younger than me talk show circuit. ...

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Sat 07/13/13 11:21 PM
yes a got an opinion (((KIK))) that's too much, maybee 18 guy & 50 woman could work for short term....for a sex relationship mainly. lol I bet she tells them she is 50

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Sat 07/13/13 11:24 PM
Anyone you date has baggage!! If it does not bother you then why should you really care what anyone else thinks? If you are afraid that your friends are going to judge you then maybe you need new friends? If you don't date the ones that you like, you might be letting a good one go!!!

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Sat 07/13/13 11:28 PM Edited by ridewytepony on Sat 07/13/13 11:32 PM
yes a got an opinion (((KIK))) that's too much, maybee 18 guy & 50 woman could work for short term....for a sex relationship mainly. lol I bet she tells them she is 50 I bet I was just thinking when I was real young I sleeped with one that was 52 she could of expired of old age all ready I wrote more above too

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 07/14/13 09:01 AM
My thoughts about it are that I've had it with so-called "mature women", with all of their baggage and pickiness. You try to be a nice guy but all you get is negativity because of stuff that happened long before you even met them. You think older women have baggage and are picky; you should have met some of the negative divorced older guys I dated. They were women haters and I could never figure out why they even were dating. You see its a two way street. There is negativity in both genders mature and younger. That is just life so there is no point in complaining about it as nothing will change. As for the topic on hand; no more than 10 years either side of my age as one lady here said; maturity is based on life experience so what experience is an 18 year old going to have that equals a 50 year old? I understand your point you made sense about the grumpy bitter guys you said you " could never figure out why they were dating" just baffling, but shouldn't the question been to yourself as to why are you dating them obviously you found more in them that they thought of woman. When I first met these guys; they were on their best behaviour. Most people when they date are not what they seem and put on an "act" so you will like them; that seems to be the theme of dating. Its only after you actually spend time with the person that the "real" person in them comes out.

cuddlebunny00 Joined Sat 04/07/12 Posts: 550	Sun 07/14/13 09:31 AM
My thoughts about it are that I've had it with so-called "mature women", with all of their baggage and pickiness. You try to be a nice guy but all you get is negativity because of stuff that happened long before you even met them. You think older women have baggage and are picky; you should have met some of the negative divorced older guys I dated. They were women haters and I could never figure out why they even were dating. You see its a two way street. There is negativity in both genders mature and younger. That is just life so there is no point in complaining about it as nothing will change. As for the topic on hand; no more than 10 years either side of my age as one lady here said; maturity is based on life experience so what experience is an 18 year old going to have that equals a 50 year old? Its really too bad that people have to put on an act these days. Maybe they should clean up theit personality .. seems alot easier than all the trouble they go rhrough to fake omeone out I understand your point you made sense about the grumpy bitter guys you said you " could never figure out why they were dating" just baffling, but shouldn't the question been to yourself as to why are you dating them obviously you found more in them that they thought of woman. When I first met these guys; they were on their best behaviour. Most people when they date are not what they seem and put on an "act" so you will like them; that seems to be the theme of dating. Its only after you actually spend time with the person that the "real" person in them comes out.