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P.S: Wish I could grammatically correct this interesting "Topic"

Well I don't thing "little" belongs with the rest of what your saying.
yes if its become so obvious that the partner is suppressing things thats just
making them miserable and now there denying it, then yes, thats going
to mess with my head severely, I wont stop with probe questions til its out
or its over and I don't buy "nothing" or "there's nothing you can do" or the first
5 answers but I will exept I hate your guts !because by this stage they probably do.
one time I interrogated her for three months to get my statifaction.
There was a lot on the line for me as I just got married and had I sponsored
her & three kids I would have been legally obligated for a very very long time with the kids
and her for 3 years.
I was with this person for 4 years before marrage ,so people change.

Now there are boundaries and its very normal, /common that our deepest secretes my only
be shared with one or two people in our lives or perhaps nobody.
as individuals we chose if or who we may share these with.

I dont want a dump truck that I need to fix either, I need a clear head to be safe when I work.

I'm all about geting paid n getting laid! if I'm in a relationship are not.?

Because no one lovers me

sometyms one cn take advantage of your weakness