I am so searching for a guy who is not afraid to take the initiative, to lead, to be the head of the house, to make me laugh, to look UP to and respect. This does not mean abusive, or that I am a doormat...by no means..been there, done that. I need a man who is FUNNY, HAPPY, CONFIDENT, SELF ASSURED without being arrogant and yet humble too. Say what you mean, mean what you say, don't be politicalaly correct, be direct and kind about being direct. I think confidense is a big turn on for women, for me it is. Where are you guys?