that's great!

Stories like yours give me hope for mankind (and womankind too)

sounds like you found a good one too bad it did not work out

I do. One woman is all I can handle.

What roost is it that I think I rule? You don't know anything about me.

once again your assumptions are incorrct. I am not drunk I thought you were commenting on my post as I have noticed that sometimes you do not quote and sometimes I have a difficult time understanding you sometimes. apologies were you not responding to me, my mistake.

but honestly I am probably the least controlling person you'd ever meet and the least likely to be "ruling " anything lol. I think it's safe to say it's unwise to make assumptions about others who we not really know anything about.

of course men can be faithful. There was a time when men were probably less faithful in a marriage because when women stayed at home there was less opportunity for them to be unfaithful. That has probably shifted the balance with more women working in the last 30-40 years or so. I really have no idea now how it goes with younger poeple and fidelity. I said what I did earlier about older men because right after my divorce I got hit on much more frequently by middle aged married men than single men.

Also online the majority of men who I have actually talked to to get to know have been married or already in a relationship. It took a long time of rewriting profiles, & blocking, etc both here & on another site I am on to reduce those types of contacts

Leave the attacks OFF of the forums. Discuss the topic not the posters. Anything after this that goes against this warning will be deleted and warnings sent out. Get it back on topic.

Kim

noted & apologies

IRT the topic = YES men can be faithful; This is provided the couple is "doin' it right" - it wouldn't become an issue. By this I mean communicating, sharing household tasks, enjoying some type of hobby together, being sensitive to the others' feelings, moods, language - I could go on for pages...

If you look at the times you know of someone being unfaithful, there is ALWAYS a root cause, and something wasn't right. This being said, there are one-offs when the stars are aligned, and the moon is just right, and that woman you know is having a really bad time (or a really good one) and alcohol is involved...just bad timing, and something wasn't right at home... You have to be very strong to turn down some strange!

This is not really true.

Men are faithful if they value their commitment to their wives, have self respect, and want to remain married. Yes you have to be very strong to resist your animal urge to have sex.

Men who are doggedly faithful are rare. Men who succumb to temptation are more common.

Its not quite the same for women. But women do stray for other reasons.

Yes we do just not all men know that the women is the key

Do GALS really stay faithful in a relationship ? or yes ?

We are talking about men. That's a different animal.

The woman is the key? What does that mean? Is that a nice way to say that the woman is the blame for a man cheating?

The man is responsible for all of his choices.

<<-- is never ON topic

it's the bird on your head addling your brains

yes, I think women are usually faithful. Men can also be faithful. I haven't expereinced a lot of that, but I know of men who are.

kemosabe!

Why would a man cheat?
I would think that there's possibly 10% to 20% at a guess that would cheat in the best circumstance
some of the reasons I would think would be, sexually addictions or (self-esteem) the need for continually
approval from other females maybee a lack of ability to say no.
for the majority of it would be mainly in a relationship where the man feels emasculated or constantly
disrespect so he would also be looking for a self-esteem boost, he's in a mentally abusive relationship
and will leave as soon as his nuts come back out of his stomach. Then irreconcilable differences.
then another one would be no longer attracted to the partner, may of just let there appearance go.
and sexually frustrated for to long.of time.
I think a lot of this would only occur in a relationships thats ran its coarse, a lack of respect relationship,
If she's falling in love with the shower head and I'm ruinin' it by hand then my dongs community
property once again, and she's irrelevant.
adult prime is to short.

I hate when people say "oh alll guys are like this" or "all women are so and so" It's a unfair blanket way of judging. I say it's mostly a case by case thing. Some people can't appreciate what they have because "oh, I can just go out and get someone else..pff". pricks. just makes the rest of us look bad...

My only experiences have been with men who are not only faithful, but enjoyed being a partner more than being free and on the market. So, I know they're out there.