This site is full of crap. 90% of the ”women” in New York are really people living in Nigeria pulling scams for cash. This site sucks. Just go to your nearest bar or museum and talk to girls.

Surely you reported them, correct?

This site is one of the best at getting rid of scammers. Anywhere online has scammers. There are scammers in the real world as well.

The site can't catch everyone, so you need to report them

i m trying to my best

Not really. A lot of people here just WHINE about not getting a date after being a newly registered member and being online for an hour.

Can't find anyone you say?! Well then, let me introduce you to something fascinating! That's right! All I need is a bit of your time to explain the benefits of the "Mutual Match Platinum" package!

Alright, are you sitting down? Good! Now throw away everything you've done with online dating, toss that s*, we don't need it anymore...You're getting a "Mutual Match Platinum" makeover! Do you know what every profile needs more of? Neither do we, but you pay us to guess so you don't have to!

All of this plus a guaranteed staff that won't answer your calls when you have trouble shooting, which you most surely will, but rest assured! We don't give a damn! And all of this is only $19.99 USD!

We'll even throw in a coaster for free made out of your favorite album.

Does this site work? Hummm...let me think.

Well it does not wash windows, bada dump, dump.

But if you take your time and not expect instant gratification, you can find someone to spend the rest of your life with.

Let me get this straight, you have been on the site for two months and the only post that you make is one complaining that the site does not work.


Try coming on to the forums and talking to people so that they can get to know you in an open environment that they can feel safe in.

Some men come on Mingle and browse through pictures of women, sending them messages like "Hi" or "lets chat" and they have one bad picture in their profile and they write something like: "I'll tell you later." or "if you want to know anything, just ask."

In my opinion what they are looking for is not a wife or relationship, they are looking for someone to have computer or phone sex with while they jack off.

and you have a nice picture with a nice smile...

Im kinda feeling this myself, but ive only been on here for maybe 8 days, so i really don't think it can be that bad.

Most of the actual people here post on the forums and talk instead of waiting around to be seen or heard. I've been doing the same, because at the end of the day i'd rather get noticed for my mind and heart and sense of humor than a profile pic, but honestly.....when you look as god as I do....lol

kidding, kidding relax!

but yeah i see where a lot of you are coming from, it can be frustrating. the point is if you come here to be validated by others, it's just going to disappoint you in the end.

If you're here for people, then it only makes sense to put your voice out there as much as you can. someone WILL respond.

Good things will happen if you're a good person with a good attitude. I know its a bit naïve, but it really has worked for me so far!

don't lose yer ****, folks. just breathe and let it flow.

well, that's all i got!

agree? disagree?

I've made awesome friends on here, one I've gotten to meet in the real world (several times). Another though we haven't met in the real world yet, I consider a close friend.

You should smile more in your pictures. This is beautiful.

<---------"Awe Shucks!"

well, im smiling now for sure! Thank you! And I'll take that advice.

You got it backwards....You're supposed to work the site sugar...


Luck, love, happiness!