How do u guys love ur gf/bf? I don't quite get it cause whenever I love someone n we start going out then end the relationship by saying they afraid to lose me someday cause am too good? I mean iam not really sure if an doing anything wrong to make them feel that way.. I had had 2 guys in my life and they both dumped me n said that (well I didn't have them at the same time tho hehe) .. Anyways how do u guys show it? N do u think I show it in a wrong way? I mean I keep telling them I loved them n stuff like that .. I cared a lot bout them n always remembered stuff.. Don't get wha iam doing wrong :( .. Iam trying to find new love but I don't wanna make the one I would love feel like he would lose me or something ..:(

Guys over 20 who are still virgins? And how do you know this, because they told you? I'm not saying they're lying to you, but it is possible & highly likely. Don't be naive & enjoyed your youth but don't allow yourself to be used or lied to!

(Redneck Wisdom)

Wow, what an ethnocentric comment.

Mingle2 is an international website, and not every unmarried young man in the world loses his virginity while he is still single.

If you're 18 and have had a four year relationship with a man in his 20's, then you were 14 when this relationship began?

I always got an A in math.

If this is true...I'm too upset with your parents to lecture you on your naivete.

If this is not true...I'm too upset with your math teacher to lecture you for story telling.



..lol..and speaking of class, our class prankster everyone! How are you

I see all these people have a hard time answering your question

and are resorting to comedy to cover up their shortcoming

they're very very smart ,but because of your tender age they are really

Having a hard time relating to this problem.

Now had you been 30 years old they would reach deep in their heart,feelings would flood on the page.

I got an A in psychology they would write it everywhere! A-hole, so your in luck! Bigtime! I just so happen

to specialize on 18 year old "woman" what I have done with my past students is messed with their fragile

minds so bad that when they go back to their 20 year old men they simple forget about

tedious problems of life's growing pains.

Seriously now! the best way for an elder to address an 18 year olds prodlem the to meditate and

take a mental trip back in time. So I was going to say that most young men are very possessive & jealous

the first time I thought about your post & now I see you have updated the thread & confirmed what I saw

On my time travel.
So its simple, you talk a lot about friends & tell stories of other men & their mainly happy with just you
but they can see you breaking out of your shell and out growing their immature antics.
This is dependency on their part, you were in a co-dependent relationship, which on paper would look
like an arch.
You were becomming independent of there needs puting them into a fight or flight posision.
Now on paper this would like a lower case letter n, one partner leaning on another, which is very unhealthy.
These guys did recognize their insecurities, and had enough respect for you and themselves to jump
while the jumping was still good.
Ideally you need to be in a relationship that is independent of each other, now on paper its going to look
like the number ll, two people standing freely of each other.
In future watch that your not an initiater or an enabler inviting dependence.

Ps the first psychology lesson is for free as are the jokes,
Do you have any Daddy issues? I could help you

Of course you're absolutely right Dodo

I wasn't considering the coutry our OP was from and what her customs may be when making my comment either. Age appropriate is quite a flexible thing around the globe.

No offense meant to the OP or her parents. In the US our girls are not raised to be relationship savy by 14...though they often think they are from what they gather on the street. And by street, I mean internet.