Topic: What is an Absolute Deal Breaker for You?
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Sat 07/20/13 08:42 PM

deadbeat dad
non christian
bisexual
tatted up
pierced up
slang filled vocabulary
profanity filled vocabulary
materialistic
bully
wimp
clingy
whiny
distant
isolated



I love your list.

There is a woman who knows what she doesn't want!!laugh

christef's photo
Sat 07/20/13 09:08 PM

A guy who drinks, smokes and says his wife has passed away yet still refers to her and still wears her wedding ring.

Time guys let go of their past and their ex and moved on.
So many of them are so insecure, players and think they can get anything they want, anytime.

One of my favourite words is NO.

Wouldn't it be nice if all men were respectful, courteous and honest and cherished their women.

Thing is ladies, each of us have to respect and love ourselves before we can expect anyone to respect us. Its important to let a guy know from the very beginning that we respect ourselves and won't allow a man to use us in any way. Let the guy respect us, open the door, treat us well and do the "man" thing. Its the mans job to do the chasing, ok, not ours. Thats the way men are made, to do the chasing, they love to do that. They choose the woman they want and go chasing that woman. If the man you like or you are attracted to is not chasing you.....back off ... he just isn't interested, sorry but thats the way it is. true.

Each of us have to wait until that guy comes after us... whether you want to acknowledge that or not, thats the way it is.

Next step is.....don't allow him to disrespect you in any way at all as you deserve to be respected in every way. If he is disrespectful or abusive toward you in any way.......run for the hills girl and don't stop, cause he won't change. You don't want to accept someone into your life like that cause you would be headed for a dysfunctional domestic violence relationship where you could end up being killed and you don't want that!!

Have a great day everyone.
God bless you all.


christef's photo
Sat 07/20/13 09:09 PM

definitely not!
good job.

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Sat 07/20/13 09:14 PM

A guy who drinks, smokes and says his wife has passed away yet still refers to her and still wears her wedding ring.

Time guys let go of their past and their ex and moved on.
So many of them are so insecure, players and think they can get anything they want, anytime.

One of my favourite words is NO.

Wouldn't it be nice if all men were respectful, courteous and honest and cherished their women.

Thing is ladies, each of us have to respect and love ourselves before we can expect anyone to respect us. Its important to let a guy know from the very beginning that we respect ourselves and won't allow a man to use us in any way. Let the guy respect us, open the door, treat us well and do the "man" thing. Its the mans job to do the chasing, ok, not ours. Thats the way men are made, to do the chasing, they love to do that. They choose the woman they want and go chasing that woman. If the man you like or you are attracted to is not chasing you.....back off ... he just isn't interested, sorry but thats the way it is. true.

Each of us have to wait until that guy comes after us... whether you want to acknowledge that or not, thats the way it is.

Next step is.....don't allow him to disrespect you in any way at all as you deserve to be respected in every way. If he is disrespectful or abusive toward you in any way.......run for the hills girl and don't stop, cause he won't change. You don't want to accept someone into your life like that cause you would be headed for a dysfunctional domestic violence relationship where you could end up being killed and you don't want that!!

Have a great day everyone.
God bless you all.




:thumbsup:

a man does love to "win"

so let him win you

and then give the loyalty (and sex:wink: laugh ) he deserves for all that work in winning you!! he'll make it worth your while if u make it worth his time and effort

men are awesome cool that way :)

whatssuup's photo
Sat 07/20/13 09:16 PM

My deal breakers are
1 Can't be a smoker
2 Must be employed
3 No school age children
4 Her underwear can't be bigger than mine

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Sat 07/20/13 09:34 PM
no dealbreakers

I firmly believe in keeping all doors open

because nothing is realized thru a closed door

all that happens is when it cannot be discussed is a closed door and that is yucky

so i guess that is the answer

if it cannot be reasonably discussed...that's the dealbreaker

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Sat 07/20/13 09:35 PM


My deal breakers are
1 Can't be a smoker
2 Must be employed
3 No school age children
4 Her underwear can't be bigger than mine



I don't smoke but I might eat a brownie now and then. :tongue:
I'm not 'employed' but I'm almost famous. bigsmile
No Children at all.
How big are your underwear?laugh

Ten reasons why you should not get a job:
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/

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Sat 07/20/13 09:38 PM
Edited by whatssuup on Sat 07/20/13 09:43 PM



My deal breakers are
1 Can't be a smoker
2 Must be employed
3 No school age children
4 Her underwear can't be bigger than mine



I don't smoke but I might eat a brownie now and then. :tongue:
I'm not 'employed' but I'm almost famous. bigsmile
No Children at all.
How big are your underwear?laugh

Ten reasons why you should not get a job:
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/
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OK I think we have something here we can work with

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Sat 07/20/13 09:56 PM
OK I think we have something here we can work with.


Oh goody. Can we jump right into discussing religion and politics then? laugh laugh

Here's the thread for that....http://mingle2.com/topic/show/362336

whatssuup's photo
Sat 07/20/13 10:01 PM

OK I think we have something here we can work with.


Oh goody. Can we jump right into discussing religion and politics then? laugh laugh

Here's the thread for that....http://mingle2.com/topic/show/362336


Nooooooo I was referring to 1' 3, and 4

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Sat 07/20/13 10:04 PM


OK I think we have something here we can work with.


Oh goody. Can we jump right into discussing religion and politics then? laugh laugh

Here's the thread for that....http://mingle2.com/topic/show/362336


Nooooooo I was referring to 1' 3, and 4



Well I don't work for other people. I work for myself.

Other people don't pay enough.


whatssuup's photo
Sat 07/20/13 10:09 PM



OK I think we have something here we can work with.


Oh goody. Can we jump right into discussing religion and politics then? laugh laugh

Here's the thread for that....http://mingle2.com/topic/show/362336


Nooooooo I was referring to 1' 3, and 4



Well I don't work for other people. I work for myself.

Other people don't pay enough.


So you are employed then !

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Sat 07/20/13 10:17 PM
a closed door

therein is the challenge

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Sat 07/20/13 10:21 PM


So you are employed then !


No, I'm "occupied." I have an occupation.

I don't have a 'business' and I don't have a "job."

To be "Employed" implies an "employer."






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Sat 07/20/13 10:21 PM
Face the challanges dont heart to hart be happy open all the doorsflowerforyou happy

whatssuup's photo
Sat 07/20/13 10:31 PM



So you are employed then !


No, I'm "occupied." I have an occupation.

I don't have a 'business' and I don't have a "job."

To be "Employed" implies an "employer."


OK so you are occupied......
then dose that make you the occupier or the occupiest since you are the chief cook and bottle washer



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Sat 07/20/13 10:49 PM




So you are employed then !


No, I'm "occupied." I have an occupation.

I don't have a 'business' and I don't have a "job."

To be "Employed" implies an "employer."



OK so you are occupied......
then dose that make you the occupier or the occupiest since you are the chief cook and bottle washer




It means I keep pretty busy doing stuff that I love to do and I sometimes make money doing it.

But the universe always sends me what I need when I need it.






KeithD87's photo
Tue 07/23/13 09:46 AM
Someone who doesn't read.

I'm serious. If a girl doesn't read and try to expand her mind, I'm not interested. I don't care if she's the most beautiful girl in the world and and in love with me; if she's got a brain like a sack of cottage cheese, I'm not interested.

1j9b6c5's photo
Tue 07/23/13 06:10 PM
When she says "I don't love you anymore!" Stick a fork in it.

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Wed 07/24/13 12:26 PM
blind ignorance,,,that would be a deal breaker too,,,