*knock knock knock*

Yes, can I help you?

I'm here for an argument!

No your not!

Yes I am!

Not here! your not!

Yes, here!

You must have the wrong address.

No I dont!

Yes you do!

No I dont!

What address were you looking for!

2429 Sussex Drive!

Oh! Well 2429 Sussex Drive is over there! this is 2411 Sussex Drive!

No its not!

Yes! It is!

Argument clinic, Monty Python you tube..goggle this...

I usually speak my mind, but I can compromise, listen or whatever, if I really want the relationship to work. However, I have met a few Drama "Kings" and I ran from them kind.

well, after being accused of being a drama queen (i have the t-shirt), i keep my two cents in my pocket.

I don't pay it any attention if I can.

Humm argue not to much speak my mind ohh HeLL Yea~~~~ I've never had a problem with voicing my opinion....

Drama is not worth my time. Nobody wins in a fight anyways. Best not to fight. Life is too short for drama I prefer to be positive and be around positive people

I have learned to avoid....

I've always been a firm believer of picking my battles. Anything that revolves around drama is not usually battle worthy.

I find that even more applicable the older I get.

I'm not spending the time I have left on stupid.

I do "IF" it exposes me as a more attractive person, or draws out another person, and shows me what they are like. The key is to shut up when it's nesissary, and listen.

I feel the same way. I don't want to debate every little thing...Discussions are great as long as they don't get heated or nasty. Or go round and round and round with no end in sight.

way to buzy added my two cents and then some LOL!

I hate drama, but sometimes it's stairing you right in the face. I really try to think first then try to figure out the root of the drama. Most of the time it has to do with a problem of self. If I can figure out how to to make the drama feeling turn into why do I or they feel bad, I'll go for it. I'll bypass it all together and go for the root. If it's too in my face, it depends on where my spirit is at, at that very momment as to how I do. Sometimes I think I blow it then wonder how I can do my part to make it better. Other times I try to deal with it quickly before it becomes something not so good. But, all in all it is not something that fits in my sphere so it needs to go whether it be me that goes, they that goes or the drama that goes. Unresolved drama does not stick around long for me, it either goes or I'm gone.

Drama can really stop a person from growing.

peace + love = drama free
self + selfishness = drama X

hate dramas

Here I starred this post said I avoid it. Did you ever hit the post replyand wish you could take it back? That happened yesterday I made a comment I wish I hadn't this guy jumps in we go at it I tell him over and over how I said I was sorry several posts ago and he's taking over this guys thread long story short they deleted the post. I hate drama

I don't want to get involved in debates on forums right now. (Or back and forth or intense discussions.)...Really want peace and calm right now...I flip the channel if things get "heated" on the news or on a TV show...Trying to "de-stress."...Don't want to take on all the problems in the world right now...Or step into other peoples' issues or problems on a daily basis...Have my own problems to solve and resolve. And I want to stay "clear-headed." Versus becoming "reactionary!" And "freaking" over every little thing. (Making mountains out of molehills!)

I'm relatively calm...Pretty used to stress and s* hitting the fan so I usually manage to get through it calmly.

Don't really stress about anything, probably should...But just don't see any use for it in my life.

good to see you,

happy that you are avoiding stress,,,,

I prefer to just walk away from it. Not worth bothering with. I'd rather just be graceful about it. What good does it ever really do to get involved in other people's drama anyway?

if the topic is worth getting across in a few carefully rendered sentences, then I can debate something, but if it gets into someone yelling their point at me, I usually, just figure "well, I'm really not gonna be the one to change their mind about this topic."

I know others have very passionate views about things, and so do I, and if they clash, that's okay too. I just let that person be comfortable in their stance, usually. Nothing is really worth arguing over unless it has a degree of importance to me.

But sometimes it does bug me that certain people feel the need to interrupt and interject their opinion to the point where they get indignant or loud or something. Few days ago I was shocked into silence by the woman im in a relationship with and.....well, I haven't really talked to her in a few days since then. Hated it so much that it surprised me that the one I claimed to love just didn't want to hear anything I had to say, and kinda acted like it was their way or the highway.
So....now the relationship is in question...
...its not that I need her to agree with me or anything like that, but when a person you care about doesn't want to even discuss what your opinion is on a subject...it might be time to redefine who this person is. Or COULD be.

whoa.....I think that's the whole reason Im ON mingle2 in the first place! Not to find a new girl per se, but I guess just to satisfy a need to be validated/heard or whatever.

<----revelation face!

Thanks...I've been "hibernating" lately. Just needed some time to work through my grief.