well i don't know if i should jump for joy or cry ,but i feel betrayed bye everyone ....i got a letter in the mail from some person today that told me i was adopted out as a baby by mistake and the got lost ,recent events how ever says that someone a heart and told me with proof so how should i feel or act i feel like my life was nothing but a lie and have know one to hold me or be here with me so i'm going crazy ,going to bed and hopefully i'll wake up and this day never happened (how likely is that) good night and plz help me figure this out someone all check back on here later

well i don't know if i should jump for joyor cry but deep down inside i feel betrayed by everyone,i got ten aletter in the mail from a i guess friend today that told me i was adopted out as a bby by mistake and gotten lost in the system,the person sent proof with the letter and forgot to sign it so how should i react,i feel like my life was nothing but a lie i have noone to hold me or just to help me through this ,so i want to go crazy, well i'm going to bed and hopefully wake up and this day would never happed(how likely is that)please someone help before i go crazy....

Sounds like you just got hit with some big news.

Get some rest and post again when you feel better.

waaiit... what happened?

Hi, I don't really know what to say about this. But, how sure are you that this is true? Do you know who the friend was? Have you talked to your parents?

I tried to e-mail you but because of the parameters set, I couldn't. But, if you need an ear, I'd be more than happy to lend one. I realize we don't know each other but sometimes, that's best, you get some objectivity. Anyway, hugs to you!

Suz

That is some tough news to get. I pray that you can get some rest and come back with more information.

Hi, got your friend request, you've been added, but if you want to chat, you'll have to IM or e-mail me. It won't let me as I live further than 150 miles from you

Hope you feel better latter...
It may take time to deal with this.
At least someone told you.

Your life is never a lie, because it is the one you lived. You are the same person today as you were before you got this information. Put it in perspective! It's just information. It does not have to change anything and you do not have to do anything about it.

well i have decided not to react to anything ,i never new who my real parents were but my mom the one that raised me was really abusive so i figure if my real parents gave me up then they either didn't want me or they died so i'm alone and i decided to go on with my life like i never recieved it becouse i fell appart yesterday really bad ,so thank everyone for the advice they gave and to the new friends i have made and my god walk with you all in what ever it is that you do for the rest of your lives for i relized it doesn't matter where you came from or who its what you r and what you stand for as a person that makes life better and who you spend your time with .
daniel from ga

I knew I should not have read this that is so sad.But God does not make mistakes.I'm sorry you had such a hard life.But there is so much good in this world.maybe you should try to look them up,you don't really know the circumstances I'm sure it was a very difficut decision for your real mom.But I wish you all the best

just remember

as in the race as they tore the mirror off the windshield


what is behind me does not matter


it is what is ahead that is important

just a thought

but hey what do i know

This isn't something you can just brush off, you know. Please get into therapy immediately!

interesting

yep may be a good idea

I agree maybe it's to much for you now and someone could help you see it more clear.Whatever you decide I wish you the best

i'll think about therapy ,but right now i'm tring to forget or to just ,adjust to it yeah i hurt but you know.i learned life goes on and maybe oneday i might see thing diffrent which what ever the reasoning is or was i just hope that they know i forgive them and i pray that god will have murcy on their soul ,and may the one who sent the letter keep a clean thought and didn't do it out of spite(sent me the letter) for i hope that they can live with them self becouse if it was me i would have left it alone and not told a soul for maybe someone diddn,t want me to know and still don't

How do a kid get adopted out by mistake? Anyways, there may be a great family out there for you..........investigate this!!

you said

i'm tring to forget or to just ,adjust to it yeah i hurt but you know.i learned life goes on and maybe oneday i might see thing diffrent which what ever the reasoning is or was i just hope that they know i forgive them and i pray that god will have murcy on their soul ,

sounds like you have begun to remove the mirror

If nothing else, realize there is a family here for you.....

Sometimes familys give thier children up for adoption- in
hopes of giving the child a better life... even though they love them. Sorry your adoptive Mom was abusive... You may want
to look up some more info- once the shock is over.
Yes you have a JSH family here when you need to talk!