Ive been on numerous dating sites never met no one in person.. i been trying to get over my ex.. i just cant.. i need advice to eather how to get over him or the best advice to get him back.. i really need this. I cant eat sleep nothin plz help

Why is he your ex??

Best way to get over one is to get under another.

Fake it till ya make it

but it is true..sound advice..(((ride)))

well u could have sex with me and ill make you feel so good you would never think of him :)

lol your to much

Hi Guys

Don't know why this is in Chit Chat? Sorry my 2 cents.

Sounds like this is a serious request and at 21 Chop could probably use some good advice.

Mine is (not sure if it's good) focus on who you are, and what you have to offer and don't put your mind into his camp. He has his own life to deal with, but your at an age where you can create your own loveliness and do it your way.

Sometimes we let others define us instead of defining ourselves. I have a feeling that your not giving yourself enough credit for what you have to offer and there are probably tons of guys who can give you what he did and so much more. Meaning better suited to you and your love.

When things don't work out it's for a reason. It doesn't mean the pain goes this second but it does me you grow and take on more value for the next relationship.

I wish you all the best and hope you take stock in the value you bring to the right man.

First I'm sorry for the earlier reply as mg said this is serious. Your young and beautiful there must be a reason he's your ex. Always put yourself first demand respect I wish you the best

A little perspective is in order here.

If you liked him so much...imagine how awesome the right one will be !!!

Also sound advice

Pony Stop making me spit my coffee all over the screen
My 2 cents= exes become exes for a reason. (they should be called why!) Whatever your reason was, will getting back together bring you to the same place now? ie: if your boat sinks cuz it has a hole in it, it's gonna sink every time you try to sail out unless you fix the hole. Also is the amount of water the boat takes on from said hole more than you are able to bail out before you sink again? (Redneck Wisdom)

'...like I've said in another post, "Why want someone who doesn't want you"? take all that energy and put it into yourself and move forward.

true dat.

Wondered what happened to that darn boat. I swear, I was only gone for a minute.

Clear the memories from your heart and your mind.
Let go of the past and embrace the present.

because they broke up... duh...

Lol thank yall for the advice it made me laugh and cry alot.. the moving on part is true.. i just baught a new house and have to live in it alone i guess that my only uh oh. I guess in a couple years ill b kikin myself in the ***

Touche! Right back at ya big buddy!

Bicker wisdom:" a partnerships a leaky ship, pony"! then leave me alone

Here's an oxymoron, Logger wisdom: if you keep going down that bumpy road & keep

Getting a flat tire then quit going down that bumpy road.

"Marking love in the afternoon with Cicilia,
all day in my bedroom,
I got up just to wash my face,
and I come back to bed someone's taken my place,

But that boat was virtually irreplaceable

(SWM) Seeking female with a boat and motor,
ps please enclose an updated picture of your..
boat and motor, thank you.

Take a trip on a jet and as you are flying over the city look down at all the thousands and thousands of people and realize that there are other fish in the sea.