You're right...BS happens all the time on free social networking sites that offer forums....It's the nature of the beast...Ryan, if you are being serious and have access, counseling could be a big help....I found this really good article on WikiHow that talks about sexual orientation and how confusing it can be for some people....It also explains the "five" types of sexual orientation...We mostly only hear about heterosexuality and homosexuality, but there is also bisexuality, asexuality, and pansexuality....Do some research, it will only cost you a little time...Ten years is a long time to be alone..Good luck and welcome to Mingle...

Here's the article...

http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-You-Are-Gay