Online love is really funny. I thought real love grows gradually how come some guys and ladies do say they love someone they meet online so much and ready to marry them even though they haven't seen them in real life. I thought you can only like someone you haven't seen and know closely. Is sucks to hear that and I don't believe these kind of people are real..

There are people who fall in love with an idea in person too...it's not just an online phenomenon.

It does, and I always say the great Oak tree had to begin as a sapling. Same in relationships & love, how it's nurtured is how it will grow!

Cyn I agree with you but is more on net.

I think that should be expected to some degree, since the only thing you can do online is communicate. If you've been communicating with someone you enjoy very much for weeks or months, you probably feel as if you've grown to know them better than you might have had you been dating over that same period. It's easy to forget that there are aspects of face to face interaction that are key in determining the true potential of a relationship that began through written communication alone.

Loving the special communication you share with someone, and loving things that you're learning about them and their personality through that communication is priceless...but I think it's too easily confused with being in love with them.

I also think people who are not accustomed to the levels of communication typical of online acquaintances can easily feel overwhelmed by it, equate it to love.

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Love

I started growing feelings for a lady and it burnt me. Don't fall in love till you meet....

I don't see how it's possible to fall in love only online. Even after meeting someone that takes a long time to turn into love...

The personality that comes across is what you fall for. Only that is a small part of who they are.

Love starts with trust and compatibility. it is rare but not absolutely impossible. It takes two stupid brains to trust each other+everything that they say and then the relation can take off. i once had a such relation.. well there was phone and letters involved we used to call everyday.. day and night. there was emotional dependency for both of us but no physical intimacy. so it is not entirely impossible. now that i have eyes and ears and brain that are working and i can see the cons of such relationship i will think twice before trusting in such case which will restrict me from "loving". i can like a person though, care for, but cannot commit for marriage.

apart from my story, i have seen two more couple who met on net, loved, then dated and then got married. So nothing impossible but definitely rare.

Old I agree with you until meeting face to face before talking about love.

So you thnk that people can fall in love without f¥ cky sucky? I like to drive it! before I buy it.
How about you Renee do you like to test drive your vehicles first?

Well thats good advice, makes sense,
Its an inaccurate look into someone as they can just show you the things that they want to and when they want to, the art of deseption, so if your in an off mood then you could just not talk at that time or
fake rosie, in person you just have to be half perceptive to realize that their dealing from the bottom of
the deck!the only place I'm not suspicious is in the bedroom. .a little extra ear music doesn't count..
It just keeps you in sync
How is it I allways manage to do a 180º & back to sex...hands slippin again n again

LOL. i know its difficult for u to believe.. but I live in the opposite part of the globe where it is so believed and is common. "people can fall in love without f¥ cky sucky?" - yes
here, love does not exclude that totally but often not included as what is considered as love but considered as a part of married life. LOL

Though that does not mean all people are virgin before marriage.. earlier it was.. now people are changing and so are their thoughts..

You don't think I'm conservative Renee? ..lol. I guess not .
So how is it that people are changing! Are they growing more appendages now that! I would
believe first!..lol..you must have gotten side tracked in the middle of this because you totaly forgot
to answer the second question. .lol...well thank you , little more incite as to how the other side lives.
hope your well & safe
Jamie

It's ok to meet someone online but don't fall in love when they know eachother then u can deside

hey jamie.. i m really sorry if u felt anything offensive..

the second question... yeah for vehicles yes, but for human beings and relationships - upto behaviour nature and emotional compatibility yes, anything else -no lol, weird huh? but true :D

it is not that we find it negative.. it is okay and good when others do it.. but when u ask a girl/guy about her/his personal preference about himself or spouse it will be no, lol, probably because bit stuck between old traditions and new thoughts..

I don't know about the whole marrying someone you've never met but I can see how love can grow over time. I'm still a little skeptical myself but somehow I ended up here anyways

real life or not at all for me.i don't fall for online shizzle.yes u can chat and get to know each other but nothing beats face to face.