You are 24 and want a relationship with an elderly lady ... Interesting!

i'd like to be in a reltionship wid an elderly matured lady any1 frm mumbai interested lady pls reply security n safety guaranteed

so what ????

damn, what is the sane world being subjected to.

I just said that it was interesting

oh k i took it in a wrong way sorry to misunderstand u

Age is just a number. If both parties love and respect each other i see no reason while it will not work.

Yea....give me a lady in her 60's and I will just swoon. Or 19 will do.

I would love to be with an older woman

then should we know each other liz

I am 51 next month. At my age I can not be picky, I am lucky to be in any kind of relationship, young or old lol. I am available tho lol.

hello all

Mate, you look like Benny from Topcat!!

Age is not just a number; its an important number. How can a 25 year old man relate to life experiences of a 50 year old woman. Love simply isn't enough to keep a relationship going. Interests, intellect, relating to life experiences are important. Also; as we age; we change and a much younger man will vastly change as compared to an older woman. I have seen lots of people on this site say they would only date a younger person but 6 months later; they say never again. Bottom line is you can't relate to a younger person as easily as someone your own age. Young guys just want to use an older woman and have no desire to have a relationship. I hate younger guys hitting on me and I usually tear a strip off of them when they try.

I totally agree age makes a difference, after the sex with a younger person and after all is done just what does a person 50 have in common with a person 24? NOTHING!!!!!

So, you're saying a 25 year old by default has different interests and intellect? Doesn't make sense to me.

The only differences imo between young and old is a cultural gap (things they grew up with) and outlook on life. I find a lot of older people (myself included) to be more cynical and pessimistic. But really, even those two don't matter sometimes. There are cynical young people who grow up listening to "oldies" songs and so forth.

I grew up in a family where a generation gap in ages was never an issue. And that was in both directions btw. I've got an uncle who married a much older woman, and my mom and dad were 14 years apart in age. The age difference was never a problem, since they shared very similar interests and even careers.

I myself have dated from both ends of the spectrum.

That being said, it seems a lot of older folks looking for younger partners concentrate too much on the physical, without considering the whole aspect of the age difference as part of the relationship. So, older men will often pick a younger woman based on physical attributes rather than personality, and vice versa... and that's where the whole thing falls apart.

To me, I put my age cutoff at where the younger women get closer to my daughter's age, or the older women start looking more like my mother. But that's a purely personal choice. I don't judge others who extend beyond those limits. Age IS relative.

I find the topic interesting indeed. I am that mature older woman. I have friends that dates younger men. A couple what seems to be committed relationships. More power to them. I have never dated a man that was not less than 5 year younger than myself. Just something in me that will not let me do it. Just prefer my men well seasoned I guess However, I will say this, my my my some of the younger men I have meet makes me wish I was a little younger or they were older. Some are very mature, maturity or wisdom does not necessarily come with age. I have been married and dated men my age or older as well , which did not work. So, its more about people than age to a point. Also depends on the difference in age, where the person are a far as mental stages in life. Let's say I'm 50 and he is 30, in 10 years, what then? When I start to (let's say I might get some wrinkles, stretch marks), what if the starts to experience some e.d. and I get some well over-due sexual recharge. Do I have to go younger then. Will he go older then. But if its just sex and both are consenting adults. Go for it! We are not talking teacher/high school students here. These are grown men.

oh, I see why younger men appreciates older women, because we strut we do not run! Especially at the sight of a immature girl!

i love it,only a young matured guy with an older women understand what it realy takes to love,wish i hard one like that