i can promise you,,,,i will never remember ur toast,,,i really wanna, but my heads shruggin ta the left,,,dunno. gotta have the timer!

Who are you talking to?

i lost yall on the previous page,,silly boy. quit laggin so far behind!

Actually, men want similar traits as what women are looking for. However, some come differently in the priority list.

LOL, you sound like the majority of men out there. I agree.... Head shot pics only!! Not many can tell me the color of my eyes. lol

What I was looking for? Man... let's see here.

Well I've gone through a lot of trial and error over the years. When I was younger it was all about "well who's hot and who isn't". Mind you it was primarily sex driven. I won't lie about that. As the years went by though I had to refine what I was looking for because everything I was doing was just plain wrong and ended up with me being with someone who treated me poorly (and later on my daughter). This is what I've finally come down to.

1. Someone who is willing to accept me for me, period. I spent far too many years trying to change myself to fit the needs of someone else. Giving up things I enjoyed, forcing myself to "enjoy" things that I didn't. You should never do that. ALWAYS be who YOU are not who someone else wants you to be.

2. A woman who loves children. Not just her kids, but anyone's. That's a big factor for me. Primarily because I have a daughter and she's the most important person to me in my life. If you have children they need to be the FIRST priority. My current girlfriend is aware of that. She has a daughter as well. We both put their well being before ours.

3. She has to be able to keep up with me. This is both physically and mentally. I wouldn't be able to stand being with someone who wasn't too terribly bright. That and I'm constantly active.. always out doing things and enjoying the world.

4. She has to be honest. That is a BIG one. There's far too many people out there who just refuse to say what's on their mind. If something is bothering you.. you need to speak up. Nobody is a mind reader. If you're happy you gotta let me know so I can keep on doing the things that are making you happy. Likewise if you're sad, miserable, or just upset.. gotta be vocal about that as well so I know that there's a problem and we can work together to find a solution to what's causing it.

5. You've got to have the same sense of humor I do. I find nearly everything funny. I mean almost everything. They can't be easily offended at all and at the same time they need to have the quick remarks to go a long with mine. If you can't consistently make each other laugh it's going to be doomed to failure.

6. This will be the last one I'll put up.. there's probably more but this has turned in to a book already. She has to be independent. Her own place, a stable job, a good income, her life in order. I've gone on far too many "rescue" missions and they have all ended extremely poorly. In this day in age it's hard and sometimes nearly impossible for just ONE person to handle it all. If she doesn't have the capability to handle her own affairs then I can't involve her in mine.

Some have it and some dnt i just adjust to her...i listen to what she wants and understand her feelings toward that...i cant just leave her behind cuz my heart wont let me...

For the first time i have seen a man who is clear about what he is looking for lol and wish u get one like that soon :)

- Would prefer is played Yugioh
- Would prefer if played Pokemon
- Likes club/dance music
- Likes clubbing
- No disfigurements or mental illnesses or anything, or anything like wonky teeth or wobbly eyes :P
- Don't mind if they're a bit overweight since I know girls hate their bodies when they're like that so she'd probably lose it (or at least try)


Kinda reminds me of my ex, when I was with her she was quite overweight, like very big lol I broke up with her and now all my mates laugh at me because she's gone really good looking after a diet :/

I already did. Thank you though