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So, at my age, if I know a guy for awhile, but don't want to commit, and have sex with him "I'm a whore"? Only according to those who like to sit around and judge others. |
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I want sex and I want it rough. Is that too much to ask for that's what I'm taking about! So, at my age, if I know a guy for awhile, but don't want to commit, and have sex with him "I'm a whore"? According to the judgmental people in the thread, probably. The rest of us? Of course not. |
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everyone is judgemental. we all make judgements all the time. it is equally judgmental to make snide remarks about people who are less willing to sleep with "whomever" and desire more in the sharing of their most intimate selves - like real attachment or commitment because of the intimacy and level of love that is a normal part of sex.
nothing wrong with that having sex just for the sake of it just seems yucky. may as well be a PB&J |
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I want sex and I want it rough. Is that too much to ask for that's what I'm taking about! So, at my age, if I know a guy for awhile, but don't want to commit, and have sex with him "I'm a whore"? I think if you reread the thread, you and the others who enjoy casual sex (and are acting a bit defensive here) will find that that is not what was said... |
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I guess it's the degree to which participate in "love-less" sex. Boning someone every night and that's all you can think about seems to indicate man whore status.
What about others who have sex with people they don't love, but not on an every night basis? Or those who date someone and have sex with them, even if they're not in love with them? At what point do they become a whore? No no no, this is the right way, its called dating, Its unfortunate for slaps like me and to many others that just skip this necessary social practice and head right in to the third stage of a relationship which being monogamy. Being in an exclusive union should take a long time to achieve, approximately 5 to 18 months. If everybody was to still date one or multiples then we wouldn't have nothing in comparison to the problems we have in NA society. This is the hole snowball effect, domestic violence, broken families, increased substance abuse Child neglect, mental illnesses, suicide, homelessness, |
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everyone is judgemental. we all make judgements all the time. it is equally judgmental to make snide remarks about people who are less willing to sleep with "whomever" and desire more in the sharing of their most intimate selves - like real attachment or commitment because of the intimacy and level of love that is a normal part of sex. nothing wrong with that having sex just for the sake of it just seems yucky. may as well be a PB&J So a commitment meaning monogamy? |
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I never had any yucky sex. I stay away from the yucky ones.
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Amusing thread but a piece from me says "who cares?". We sometime get attached through romps or vice versa. what matters is an accord. Love and sex got no incline, love is a feeling with "emotional clings" while "sex" is a practise of physiology. they are independent but can work together in an office called "Happiness" like the OP emphasized
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