Is it true that guys only want sex and women only ant communication, connection and emotional stimualtion.

No.

I don't believe that Anyone male or female with half a brain would want to venture into a sexual relationship without love, getting to know them...Ego bounding basically,Communication is extremely important...Not just that alone it has to be spiritual for me as well...No I don't mean religion, when to people have a meeting of the minds it open up the heart and the soul...

I was laughing so hard I probably woke the neighbors.

I think most women love and crave sex just as much as men do. A lot of us feel communication, connection and emotional stimulation are desirable bonds to establish before becoming intimate though. I think that's true of many women and men alike.

If she is suppose to be your woman & I'm not geting the connection then I will end it before
I go to camp.

I would be more tolerant to a sexual dry spell if she remained connect.
If I only feel connected between the sheets I would feel she's unpappy in other area's
& I always fire her as they never quit when they seen unpappy but just make life

Fire her?

It depends on the emotional connection. That can be a good or a bad thing and a lot of people are reluctant to get emotionally involved but still want sex. I think that most women probably want to feel that they trust a guy if they are going to have sex with him.

I agree scotsman. I think this is the real moral dilemma thread because the issue of sex and commitment CAN (not always) but can look very different to men & women.

Herein lies my dilemma I know I have mentioned on here before. Sometimes men will complain that we gals make them "wait" for sex. We are just so demanding...lol. sooooo do I have sex and hope he's trustworthy, or risk losing him because I want to wait?

The other dilemma is for the guys - you want us to sleep with you, but you want us to abandon our need for trust and commitment to accept casual sex.... we make you wait because we've been burned...not by you per se. but most likely somewhere at some time some guy told us he loved us or wamted a relationship JUST to get sex and then vanished as soon as he got what he wanted...on to the next "victim"...so now we are wary...justifiably. but guys, it's the lies as much as any other moral reason we have that we want to wait - to make sure a man is sincere. For me it is TOTALLY past lies that makes me wary as I have no other moral issue with sex. If men in the past had not lied to us we probably would be more willing to sleep with you, or believe that you are genuine.

No, some men and women both want different things from a relationship. With some people, Sex comes last, and good communication and respect comes first.