When I was a boy, I knew a very unremarkable man. Nothing special about him. He was no Brad Pitt. However every time I saw him. He was with a different girl. Some were quite attractive. So I asked him, What's your secret? How do you always have a different pretty girl? He replied, "Well boy the secret is this, If you speak to 5 girls. At worst 1 of them will agree to go out with you. If you speak to 20 girls at worst 5 will go out with you. Now if you speak to 50 girls, At worst 20 will go out with you. So is there anything wrong with dating many people till you find what you want? Just a thought i'd like to entertain?

I think that one at a time is the best.

Interesting, Why?

Nothing wrong with having options. Some women and men date several on the go, so that they know who is best for them. Though, I could be wrong.

Not if that is what works for you.

Dating really is a numbers game (to some people) and there isn't anything wrong with that. However, in order to accomplish this feat ya gotta have the nutsack to talk to chicks. I guess this is why online dating is viewed as a "meat market". Guys will send out tons of emails to chicks cause the odds are you will get (at the very least) a few responses. But hey....if this process helps a person meet their true love, then it was worth it. Problem is that when you meet that one person ya gotts stop talking to chicks.

IMO, this is the only right answer...Nobody's business how people choose to live their lives unless those choices directly affect them....

I'll flirt, until I'm dating just one, or one claims me. After that, one woman is all I can handle.

As long as you're honest upfront about dating several women, I don't see a problem with it.

The more dates you have the more options you have to choose from. Everyone a person goes out with does not always want them as a potential mate.

Just because you go on a date with someone. Does not mean there will be a 2nd date. Nothing wrong with meeting several people a week or a month. At oh say starbucks, Just to see if you like the person or want to continue dating them.

I think to take that style of dating very far, one would have to have a really good memory. How would you keep track of who said what if you're juggling too many?

Some women are more memorable than others

I agree with this. Always be honest. I don't know that I could handle dating too many though, I feel like I would lose track and lose the attentiveness that a guy would deserve!

See this is where my logic falls short... on on hand I kind of want to find the perfect one for me.. which implies that I should go through several and choose from those... (I have social anxiety and kind of shy.... though perfectly possible to do if I pull myself from my computer )

On the other hand very old fashioned as far as limiting the amount of sex partners and being faithful to one.. and of the mentality to not have as many sex partners as I possible can ( society promotes this and I am slightly against it .. but whatever, she can be herself that's cool ) and likely to go for the most likely next one and not bother to try everything before settling

Remember when momma said "Don't touch that. You don't know where its been! Thats a healthy attitude to take with strangers. I wouldn't advise you to sleep with every date you go on. On the contrary get to know them very well. Nothing wrong with getting to know a few at a time.

Tis why man invented Siri for the Iphone. That chick can keep track of stuff like this. Just don't ask her to tell you a joke. She sucks at that.

How do you know what/who you like until you have the opportunity to check things out? My issue would be with time- there are only so many hours in a day!

You really should slow down Goof, you're giving Siri a headache.

in my opinion, no there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are honest

and....don't expect that they will agree to sexual intimacy. not all women will be willing to have sex if they are not your 1 and only

so if you can keep it light - not too heavy or pushy - and keep it honest - it's fine

also keep in mind, some women will be put off by what they see as you "playing" women (it may look like that to them)

and when you find the right one, settle in before you lose her