Topic: How can you tell when your friend is really into yo ? | |
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Been wondering how you can tell if your friend is really into you or not..
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Huhm,am as ''blind as a bat'' when it comes to such,so,friend better come out say it,otherwise,i'd not know!!
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Well, it could be a gun in his pocket I suppose.
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If they show up at your house wearing nothing but a trenchcoat and holding a six pack of beer in their hands......ummmm....they may want more than friendship.
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If they show up at your house wearing nothing but a trenchcoat and holding a six pack of beer in their hands......ummmm....they may want more than friendship. |
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I'm no help here. I'm told a good friend carried a torch for me for 10 years and I never picked up a clue.
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For you ladies, this is easy:
If he's hanging around, even though you give him no reason to, he's into you. If he listens to your problems, but doesn't know a thing about fashion, he's into you. If he picks up the check, and you're not sleeping with him, he's into you. For us men, well it's a little more complicated, but I think I've finally figured it out after all my years: She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot. |
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For you ladies, this is easy: If he's hanging around, even though you give him no reason to, he's into you. If he listens to your problems, but doesn't know a thing about fashion, he's into you. If he picks up the check, and you're not sleeping with him, he's into you. Roaming, from my experience, other than picking up the check, that describes a good friend. For us men, well it's a little more complicated, but I think I've finally figured it out after all my years: She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot. |
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She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot.
HAHAHAHAHA ! |
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I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this. My last two girlfriends literally had to sit me down and tell me point blank that they liked me. Otherwise I would never have known.
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Edited by
ViaMusica
on
Tue 04/16/13 05:33 PM
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I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this. My last two girlfriends literally had to sit me down and tell me point blank that they liked me. Otherwise I would never have known. I've had instances where the guy pretty much had to do the same thing with me because I wasn't reading his signals right. I have male friends, so I don't always take the fact that a guy is spending time with me to mean he's actually interested interested... and then I'll be surprised to find out he is. Or there'll be someone I think is, and then it turns out he isn't, at least not that way. Soooo confusing (and embarrassing)! So I've learned to avoid assuming anything... |
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I was exactly the same way. My supervisor at the time (my age) and I were good friends and I didn't know he liked me for the months we worked together. I was completely oblivious buy everyone else knew. Of course I didn't believe anyone when they said he liked me, but we would always hang out after work at quik trip and talk. Eventually he asked me to the movies and he asked me out about a month after
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I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this. My last two girlfriends literally had to sit me down and tell me point blank that they liked me. Otherwise I would never have known. I've had instances where the guy pretty much had to do the same thing with me because I wasn't reading his signals right. I have male friends, so I don't always take the fact that a guy is spending time with me to mean he's actually interested interested... and then I'll be surprised to find out he is. Or there'll be someone I think is, and then it turns out he isn't, at least not that way. Soooo confusing (and embarrassing)! So I've learned to avoid assuming anything... That's what taught me not to assume anything. I couldn't even estimate the number of times I misread someone's intentions. |
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If they show up at your house wearing nothing but a trenchcoat and holding a six pack of beer in their hands......ummmm....they may want more than friendship. a shopping trip to Macy's? |
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is it that eazy? we shudnt foget that there are prtenders who can prtend to giv a **** about u whiles they dnt
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and to think I always thought it was when they always wanted to tie you up with duct tape.
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I'm pretty clueless, too, so it has to be a really obvious sign- When they kiss you?!? |
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For you ladies, this is easy: If he's hanging around, even though you give him no reason to, he's into you. If he listens to your problems, but doesn't know a thing about fashion, he's into you. If he picks up the check, and you're not sleeping with him, he's into you. For us men, well it's a little more complicated, but I think I've finally figured it out after all my years: She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot. Hahaha. It's kind of true. us women usually keep looking when we aren't sure our guy friend is also into us. Guys, girls are very complicated, so read between the lines, we usually say things that meant the opposite like "go away" when it actually meant "just insist to stay, and I'll keep you." I should know. |
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