Topic: confused an dont know what to do HELP
mckeachie's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:23 AM
Why dont you let the other women give him the second chance? hu umm rember cycle .ohwell

adj4u's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:23 AM
ne had mutiple chances sounds to me me

jerk about baby

he has a right to have prove it was his

but after the lose

everything is fine and admits to being a jerk

makes him a bigger jerk

missing important family functions

adultery

a secret

whats next

you can't be in public if its a secret

who is he trying to hide it from

are you just for now till someone else comes along


run forest run --jenny voice again


heather's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:24 AM
I did dump him. That is what i thought to he just wants a peace of a**

Mstry_Grl's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:24 AM
3 strikes, do you think he deserved that many?? hon, it's a good thing you told him to hit the road...you made the right decision, don't beat yourself up over it.

no photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:24 AM
He will treat u the same as he did your daughter!!! Honey, go find someone that will respect you AND your daughter!!!

adj4u's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:27 AM
good

be well

and may much good come your way


later

heather's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:27 AM
Im working on that I have my first date on sat. I cant wait but i will stay single for a while.

Mstry_Grl's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:36 AM
congrats. hope you have fun. sounds like you deserve it.

kambole's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:55 AM
Hey Heather..that's a sad story but be assured that the jerk doesn't deserve you. He can survive on his own without you besides you are not even his identical twin.drinker drinker drinker Let him run back to his mama......There are far much better things in life than him...wishing you all the best in life...have fun with your new date

no photo
Fri 08/17/07 09:42 AM
Why are you even thinking about this? The guy's a LOSER, let it go.

Quake3's photo
Fri 08/17/07 09:52 AM
Heather...you asked us "What should I do"

well for starters you can start banging your head against the wall and knock some sense in to yourself....do I have to spell it out for You.....or do you want to remain being a doormat for Men the rest of your life???????

this idiot has already cheated on you and has the nerve to ask to try and work things out again,,,,,???????

I feel like putting my head through a jiprock wall when I hear these stories.....

get some self esteem happening heather and drop kick this bum to the curb where he belongs....

heather's photo
Fri 08/17/07 04:31 PM
Quake3
You are right i do need to get some self esteme. I have loost all mine Iam slowly getting it back but it does take time.

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 08/17/07 04:35 PM
do not go back...
leave it behind you and find someone who will put you and family first.
it is great ti have hobbies and such, but need to remember priorities.
plus cheating, hmmmmmm

shutterguy's photo
Fri 08/17/07 04:39 PM
if he wont drive 45 mins to be there and dont want you to tell all he wants is a booty call from you leave the jerk alone

alexiateigra's photo
Fri 08/17/07 05:02 PM
Heather, you need to move on. You deserve better. He IS just using you. Granted, everyone deserves a 2nd chance, but do not delude yourself. He has made it very clear that he has no intention of putting anyone but his own wants 1st!!!!!! devil devil devil


You deserve better. Find yourself, then find someone else.


Good Luck and Take Care,
Alexia!

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/17/07 05:03 PM
Hummmmm way toooo many red flags to ignore, girl ditch him at the nearest gutter and move right along the street sweepers will put him were he belongs laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile

shutterguy's photo
Fri 08/17/07 05:35 PM
hey txs the gutter is mine remember

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/17/07 05:40 PM
Oppppppppps Shutter forgot ya will have to mover over a bit got a azzzzzzzzzz coming in lmao laugh laugh laugh bigsmile

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:06 PM
i say get a boink then say goodbye !!

alexiateigra's photo
Fri 08/17/07 07:37 PM
hahahahahahaah.lololololololol bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile