Some think the internet is the way.
That is how things are to be done today.
It makes some get bold.
And others seem to be so cold.
It actually lacks so much.
People are completely out of touch.
You expect them to tell the truth.
If you get it it’s like pulling a tooth.
They say what you want to hear.
And in the end call you dear.
It never prevails.
They just send a couple of e-mails.
Then they are gone in a flash.
They go running in a mad dash.
Make you wonder why.
They even took the time to try.
And make contact with you.
If that is how they do.
It seems like a waste.
That‘s done in poor taste.
You might see me here each day.
But I don’t believe I will find a love this way.
For you must see.
I don’t think this is the way it should be.
I need to be able to look into there eyes.
See if they are telling the truth or just lies.
You can’t do that miles apart.
And be willing to give your heart.
For what I have seen there have been very few.
That the love they thought they had was true.

protect ur heart, it is a precious commodity, simple subject and well worded

So true for me too,as Frank said protect your heart

frank that is so true so many times I have see those that confess there love for another they have not even met. Maybe it is just me or I keep that door shut but to me if I utter those words they will not be tossed around lightly as if they are only mere words. Those are very powerful words. To give one false hopes of love is wrong as if they see it as a toy to dangle in front of anothers eyes. Just to see how far they can get.

COULDN'T AGREED MORE

Hummm should I mark it down that we acutally agreed lmao

Txgal u know I love you!!!!!

True, but the bar scene, there's prowlers in bookstores too, there's lies there, I see your point, but, to me, there's not a big differance between this and that, yeah, it's good to be able to look into someone's eyes, but it's better to look inside their soul, and sometimes, words, honestly written, without the vanity of our bodies getting in the way, of getting to know the real person, can work, but oh my, we wear so many masks.

((((( Kristi ))))))

Mikey ya love all the women Mikey lol



jimz I hear you as well but the one main factor is with one they are in front of you. And to get to know a person one must have contact with them not just online or the phone but bodies that are close. For you can not get to know the true person without having that contact. I can descibe to one what I'm like personality wise but unless one actually met me there is now way of knowing for sure. I've done the LDR before for a year we talked all the time IM , e-mailed played games together everythning was great we met still all good he moved to Texas and it was like nite and day. That was 2 years ago so yeah I've tried it. Not knocking it nor saying I would not be open if should happen again. just saying I don't think that is how I will meet someone.

the internet is a fine place to have friends people to just chat with have fun but i agree face to face

hmmmmmmm, if what you say is true ......... very sad. I am new at this internet dating stuff, and I guess I haven't "played the game long enough" to know how much people are actually lying to me. I shouldn't probably profess this but I am a trusting person to a point. I will believe pretty much what someone tells me unless I find out different........but by what you say I should be guarded and look out for false statements and people pretending to be someone they are not. I haven't had any expectations of meeting someone on here because most live far away and my intuition tells me that long distance relationships are not very workable or fullfiling. I'm really sorry that you had a bad experience tx........I will be wishing for you that you find someone dear to you whether you meet them on here or in a real life situation.......I feel everyone deserves to be happy and have someone they love madly and they love them madly back.
I've been feeling this internet stuff isn't real.......it's like make believe sorta. It's fun, but then again it's empty feeling. It's sad to me that there isn't healthier places to meet the opposite sex besides bars.......and god knows I don't do bars!!! So where does that leave us?

Rufus even I will not go as far and say it was a bad experience for yes I had a lot of good times over that time and learned alot too. What happen at the end blew my mind but not to the point I dislike the guy and wish him only the best in life as well.

One thing I did learn in the last 16 years is I don't regret not one relationship I have had there was something there or it would have never been. And I wish them all well and hope they find the happiness they so deserve in life as well as in love.

You are a good example for us all TxsGal

I feel the same way about my past relationships

Hummm good example naw would not want

nyone following myy example

why not txs

and good moring to you