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Topic: Ruin my life.
rindamin666 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 222	Fri 04/05/13 01:01 PM
I had waited for someone from the year 2008 to come back to my life and make it beautiful again, but a couple of days ago i heard that she had an engagement with somebody. So what shall i do? Where is the reasone for me to live the life? How will the miseries and sorows fill up that i faced these past long years?

SuburbanCityBoy Joined Tue 02/19/13 Posts: 16	Fri 04/05/13 01:33 PM
I had waited for someone from the year 2008 to come back to my life and make it beautiful again, but a couple of days ago i heard that she had an engagement with somebody. So what shall i do? Where is the reasone for me to live the life? How will the miseries and sorows fill up that i faced these past long years? It's up to you to make your life beautiful my friend. You can't ever count on anyone else to make you happy. That has to come from within. Don't waste your time being too upset. Feel what you have to feel as a human being and move on! Don't think stupid! You'll be fine.

rindamin666 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 222	Fri 04/05/13 01:48 PM
I had waited for someone from the year 2008 to come back to my life and make it beautiful again, but a couple of days ago i heard that she had an engagement with somebody. So what shall i do? Where is the reasone for me to live the life? How will the miseries and sorows fill up that i faced these past long years? It's up to you to make your life beautiful my friend. You can't ever count on anyone else to make you happy. That has to come from within. Don't waste your time being too upset. Feel what you have to feel as a human being and move on! Don't think stupid! You'll be fine. Thanx brother, hope u get sucses in ur life.

PrintsCharming Joined Thu 03/21/13 Posts: 547	Fri 04/05/13 05:30 PM
You need to show your emotional state acts independently from her actions, her behaviors, and her attraction to you.

rindamin666 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 222	Fri 04/05/13 08:10 PM
You need to show your emotional state acts independently from her actions, her behaviors, and her attraction to you. But its al over now.

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Tue 04/09/13 08:27 AM
wow! thats a long time to be waiting for someone that was never coming back, you need to realise that she was not the right one for you and take some time for yourself now make friends go out and have fun and when the time comes you will meet the right one for you

PrintsCharming Joined Thu 03/21/13 Posts: 547	Wed 04/10/13 01:20 PM
let go of your inner wuss.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 04/10/13 01:30 PM
I had waited for someone from the year 2008 to come back to my life and make it beautiful again, but a couple of days ago i heard that she had an engagement with somebody. So what shall i do? Where is the reasone for me to live the life? How will the miseries and sorows fill up that i faced these past long years? Oh well...."next" when there is nothing you can do....there is nothing you can do...why waste any more time waiting for someone to "come back into your life?" the sooner you let it go and chalk it up to experience the better off u will be

dmckinnon Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 323	Wed 04/10/13 01:48 PM
I waited thirty years for the love of my life to come back. I didn't sit in one spot and be miserable about it though, I just harbored this secretly. Lo and behold she came back into my life in 2011, but then she was gone shortly after. So...moral of the story? If the watched pot doesn't boil, get another one.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Wed 04/10/13 02:41 PM
I waited thirty years for the love of my life to come back. I didn't sit in one spot and be miserable about it though, I just harbored this secretly. Lo and behold she came back into my life in 2011, but then she was gone shortly after. So...moral of the story? If the watched pot doesn't boil, get another one. Amen to that!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Wed 04/10/13 02:47 PM
I had waited for someone from the year 2008 to come back to my life and make it beautiful again, but a couple of days ago i heard that she had an engagement with somebody. So what shall i do? Where is the reasone for me to live the life? How will the miseries and sorows fill up that i faced these past long years? To me,thats too long to be sitting in one place,mopping about one particular person! If she walked out,she knew what she was doing! Let it go my dear, Stay strong,head held up high,and walk on! Not easy,but still,not undoable!! Its you to boost yourself,satisfy yourself in your life! Happiness is and starts with(in) you!

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Wed 04/10/13 04:42 PM
Let go and move on. Be happy that she's happy. Accept the fact that she's not meant for you. Someday you will thank her for letting go when you found the right one for you. Loosen you tie, look around take a step forward and you'll realize you are slowly moving on. I know its hard but you should try rather than be stuck. Love doesn't just evolved in one person. Goodluck.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21823	Wed 04/10/13 04:52 PM
Living in the past will get you nowhere. Move on with your life.

kellysirishgirl Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 27	Wed 04/10/13 09:47 PM
Let go and move on. Be happy that she's happy. Accept the fact that she's not meant for you. Someday you will thank her for letting go when you found the right one for you. Loosen you tie, look around take a step forward and you'll realize you are slowly moving on. I know its hard but you should try rather than be stuck. Love doesn't just evolved in one person. Goodluck. I fully agree with this! Once you find the love of your life, you will realize what a blessing it was that you are not with the one that you waited for so long. Although it hurts now, time will heal all wounds and just be happy for her, I am sure she would be happy for you when you find the one that is perfect for you.

newguy1987 Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 2	Wed 04/10/13 10:30 PM
due had the same thing happen to me yeah its sucks major ***,but keep your head up.just means she not for you.

newguy1987 Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 2	Wed 04/10/13 10:31 PM
due had the same thing happen to me yeah its sucks major ***,but keep your head up.just means she not for you.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Wed 04/10/13 10:54 PM
I had waited for someone from the year 2008 to come back to my life and make it beautiful again, but a couple of days ago i heard that she had an engagement with somebody. So what shall i do? Where is the reasone for me to live the life? How will the miseries and sorows fill up that i faced these past long years? I'm going to suggest that your entire life could not have been wrapped around this girl, since she was not actually with you...unless you sat around and did noting at all for those years, you still actually have things going on in your life. You can always concentrate your efforts on that part of your life until you find someone who wants to share it with you.