why is so hard to find a nice women in this world when you are a nice men but those that are completely rude and without morals have all the women the want

because usually all the good guys are taken or we don't know they exist because they are rare now days...good luck...i hope you find what you're look for.

Yes i know but is not that there rare is just women prefer to have then like best friend that way when the bad hurt her they have a shoulder to cry and feel good

thats true in some cases...it even works the same way from woman i have guys friends that call me when they have questions about their kiddos lol...but then if the guy is really interested in the girl who's crying on his shoulder then why doesn't he say anything? why keep it a secret? sometimes girls do that because they don't know that the one they're crying wants to be more then just that shoulder to cry on...

Because sometimes you said what you think and they respond to you saying that they only want you like a friend and two weeks laterthey go back to the men that hurt their feelings and we the good ones like stupid we still offer our shoulder when they get hurt again and then is worst because they know that we are not going to say no because we have feeling for then

ok i admit it does suck to be the shoulder they cry on or the one they tell all their secrets to but then it makes you kind of feel like u are good enough to keep their secrets but not good enough for their love...i can tell you from experience we can only wait so long before we have to move on with life...funny thing is when we're gone thats when they tend to realize they had someone good right there and now they're gone.... so lets toast that if you are the one who is standing by and loving someone from afar that they will realize what a jewel u are before its too late...cheers doll

Thats true cheer to that