ok im dying over this gal right i dont think she give a care about me but mabey she does she acts pretty stange at times when we're together anyone know how to tell it u got the girl or if its a waste of time im trully in love with her there's only one big problem she way older than me so should i forget her or wat and anyone now a way to forget someone your heart doesnt want to let go of? help me plz.

First of all just how old is she? I've had my share of being into to someone so much that it's hard just to let go.My advice to you is to just wait it out for awhile say a week or 2.She sounds like she's a hard one to understand or maybe she's just not that into you.Anyway u should do things such as dinner,movies,or something along these lines.This will give u time to know eachother and see how she reacts.Yeah I know it's pretty basic info.Well good luck and I hope things work out hun!

BWG, to understand your problem better, we will need to know more details.

1.How long have you know each other?
2.How WELL do you know each other? This is tough one. It isn't the same as how long & sometimes, we convince ourselves that we know someone when we do not.
3.How old are you & how old is she?


And for extra points, kind of described your personality a bit & hers.

If you do not feel comfortable or want to answer the above questions, here is my advice.

1.Stop, inhale, exhale, and breathe.
2.The age difference really depends on that ages that we referring to. As we are young, the age factor has a significant importance, but as we grow older, it diminishes. For example, 20 year old and a 30 year old vs 40 year old and a 50 year old. For the 20 year old and 30 year old, there will be some age issues, but it depends on the couple as a whole & each person individually. For the 40 year old and the 50 year old, age is not an factor in most cases.
3.Regardless of whether the age is an issue or not, relationships should never be rushed. They take time to develop.


Take Care & Good Luck
Alexia