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happyica Joined Mon 09/03/12 Posts: 43	Sun 03/31/13 12:36 PM
actualy my english is so poor Hunny, we are not trying to be mean, we are trying to help. we want to see everyone happy and in love.. you can e-mail me and I will help, but take the suggestions off of this thread..it will help.. When i email you it show you reach may mail and my mail can not reach you I am sorry, I deleted, please try again. It again so same msg plz help me

happyica Joined Mon 09/03/12 Posts: 43	Sun 03/31/13 12:38 PM
actualy my english is so poor Hunny, we are not trying to be mean, we are trying to help. we want to see everyone happy and in love.. you can e-mail me and I will help, but take the suggestions off of this thread..it will help.. When i email you it show you reach may mail and my mail can not reach you I am sorry, I deleted, please try again. It again so same msg plz help me I am so lonely PLZ help me

fineporcelain Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 5745	Sun 03/31/13 12:38 PM
Done hunny

456tessa Joined Wed 07/11/12 Posts: 179	Sun 03/31/13 12:43 PM
Why don't you guys, who say that it's purely the Indian boy's fault that he hasn't got any response here, tell him if you have actually met someone (serious) here. I'm interested in that, too. I think that would be the best encouragment.... It's true we have to be patient, have to have a fairly attractive profile and be active if we want to be successful (though I don't think forum posting is essential -- this is one of the rare sites where this is possible, but maybe not all of us came here for this reason . However, it is also true that this site is a bit odd in some respects: searching is only possible by individual countries (which takes more time) and there are hundreds of inactive profiles .. What I am trying to say (not to be negative, but just realistic) that even if you are patient and fairly active (with a fairly good profile) there may be not much response... Of course, no response often means "Not interested"(for one or the other reason) and that's OK with me. But those who may respond, most often either want just casual chatting or want to drag you immediatelly off the site -- well, this is at least my experience ... but I would really be happy to hear some more optimistic ones -- actual success stories, if there are any.... Thank you (by the way, I haven't given up yet)....

happyica Joined Mon 09/03/12 Posts: 43	Sun 03/31/13 12:54 PM
Why don't you guys, who say that it's purely the Indian boy's fault that he hasn't got any response here, tell him if you have actually met someone (serious) here. I'm interested in that, too. I think that would be the best encouragment.... It's true we have to be patient, have to have a fairly attractive profile and be active if we want to be successful (though I don't think forum posting is essential -- this is one of the rare sites where this is possible, but maybe not all of us came here for this reason . However, it is also true that this site is a bit odd in some respects: searching is only possible by individual countries (which takes more time) and there are hundreds of inactive profiles .. What I am trying to say (not to be negative, but just realistic) that even if you are patient and fairly active (with a fairly good profile) there may be not much response... Of course, no response often means "Not interested"(for one or the other reason) and that's OK with me. But those who may respond, most often either want just casual chatting or want to drag you immediatelly off the site -- well, this is at least my experience ... but I would really be happy to hear some more optimistic ones -- actual success stories, if there are any.... Thank you (by the way, I haven't given up yet).... Honestly i did not get any good responde

techknowlove Joined Mon 11/07/11 Posts: 6771	Sun 03/31/13 02:26 PM
what can i do right now give me suggestion You can start by baking me some cookies.

fineporcelain Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 5745	Sun 03/31/13 05:16 PM
Why don't you guys, who say that it's purely the Indian boy's fault that he hasn't got any response here, tell him if you have actually met someone (serious) here. I'm interested in that, too. I think that would be the best encouragment.... It's true we have to be patient, have to have a fairly attractive profile and be active if we want to be successful (though I don't think forum posting is essential -- this is one of the rare sites where this is possible, but maybe not all of us came here for this reason . However, it is also true that this site is a bit odd in some respects: searching is only possible by individual countries (which takes more time) and there are hundreds of inactive profiles .. What I am trying to say (not to be negative, but just realistic) that even if you are patient and fairly active (with a fairly good profile) there may be not much response... Of course, no response often means "Not interested"(for one or the other reason) and that's OK with me. But those who may respond, most often either want just casual chatting or want to drag you immediatelly off the site -- well, this is at least my experience ... but I would really be happy to hear some more optimistic ones -- actual success stories, if there are any.... Thank you (by the way, I haven't given up yet).... Because I am not done with him, thank you. I just got busy..patience is a good thing..Learn some.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 03/31/13 05:34 PM
what can i do right now give me suggestion You can start by baking me some cookies. Chocolate chip for me please.

fineporcelain Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 5745	Sun 03/31/13 05:37 PM
what can i do right now give me suggestion You can start by baking me some cookies. Chocolate chip for me please. Oh yummy...me too please?

fineporcelain Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 5745	Sun 03/31/13 05:47 PM
Why don't you guys, who say that it's purely the Indian boy's fault that he hasn't got any response here, tell him if you have actually met someone (serious) here. I'm interested in that, too. I think that would be the best encouragment.... It's true we have to be patient, have to have a fairly attractive profile and be active if we want to be successful (though I don't think forum posting is essential -- this is one of the rare sites where this is possible, but maybe not all of us came here for this reason . However, it is also true that this site is a bit odd in some respects: searching is only possible by individual countries (which takes more time) and there are hundreds of inactive profiles .. What I am trying to say (not to be negative, but just realistic) that even if you are patient and fairly active (with a fairly good profile) there may be not much response... Of course, no response often means "Not interested"(for one or the other reason) and that's OK with me. But those who may respond, most often either want just casual chatting or want to drag you immediatelly off the site -- well, this is at least my experience ... but I would really be happy to hear some more optimistic ones -- actual success stories, if there are any.... Thank you (by the way, I haven't given up yet).... And by the way, if you would have looked in the welcome section, there is a thread about success stories.... you might want to try there before shooting everyone down that is trying to help others.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 03/31/13 09:17 PM
i use mingle so many time but still not getting any partner nor good friend not even got any respone from any one it is worst. Not scope of chartting. Because ever action should always meet your full expectations right? "I joined a dating website, sent a bunch of letters to random women who are buried in messages from guys like myself over a 6 month period and I am not drowning in them? This is completely unfathomable!"

Mohiter Joined Sun 12/16/12 Posts: 23	Sun 03/31/13 11:18 PM
They just never learn

David Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 29	Mon 04/01/13 02:17 PM
Some really good suggestions by fineporcelain and Jeanniebean :)

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 04/01/13 02:25 PM Edited by mightymoe on Mon 04/01/13 02:32 PM
Why don't you guys, who say that it's purely the Indian boy's fault that he hasn't got any response here, tell him if you have actually met someone (serious) here. I'm interested in that, too. I think that would be the best encouragment.... It's true we have to be patient, have to have a fairly attractive profile and be active if we want to be successful (though I don't think forum posting is essential -- this is one of the rare sites where this is possible, but maybe not all of us came here for this reason . However, it is also true that this site is a bit odd in some respects: searching is only possible by individual countries (which takes more time) and there are hundreds of inactive profiles .. What I am trying to say (not to be negative, but just realistic) that even if you are patient and fairly active (with a fairly good profile) there may be not much response... Of course, no response often means "Not interested"(for one or the other reason) and that's OK with me. But those who may respond, most often either want just casual chatting or want to drag you immediatelly off the site -- well, this is at least my experience ... but I would really be happy to hear some more optimistic ones -- actual success stories, if there are any.... Thank you (by the way, I haven't given up yet).... one thing i've noticed on here is that people that gripe the most about meeting others on here is that they have about 10 posts or less in the forums... guys, the women on here get flooded with emails, and they are not going to pick out yours in that mess. People on here have made some good friends, but mainly out of the forums. if a person knows kind of who you are by reading what you post, they are more likely to respond to an email from you rather than a random individual who wants to brag about his pecker size... try to be a friend first, then see what happens..

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 04/01/13 05:41 PM
Oh come on. The guy lives in India. How many Indian women are there on these forums? Yeah, all the women on these sites get spammed with emails and they don't bother to reply to most of them but they reply to some. I get replies sometimes and most of them don't know me from the forums. You get replies by sending them messages that they feel like replying to and having a profile that they like. It isn't rocket science.