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Ruthie1983 Joined Wed 04/13/11 Posts: 1	Thu 03/28/13 06:45 PM
what to do when your other half doesnt help with bills?

sajawalkhan Joined Fri 11/23/12 Posts: 65	Thu 03/28/13 07:08 PM
How bills?only here girls looking for bills only bills

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 03/28/13 07:10 PM
what to do when your other half doesnt help with bills? Don't feed them or comfort them, they're freeloaders.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Thu 03/28/13 07:27 PM
What Hippie said. They are using you pure and simple. Either sit down and talk to them and lay down some rules and make them help out, or they need to go. It is not working if only one does ALL the work and the other leeches. That is a parasite.

TxRose64 Joined Tue 03/26/13 Posts: 17	Thu 03/28/13 08:03 PM
if he's TRULY my other half WE do the bills!

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Fri 03/29/13 09:29 AM
i agree with all the replies

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Fri 03/29/13 10:30 AM
what to do when your other half doesnt help with bills? Same as with a room-mate that stops paying their share of the rent; rid yourself of them.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 03/29/13 10:37 AM Edited by Leigh2154 on Fri 03/29/13 10:37 AM
what to do when your other half doesnt help with bills? If there is no valid reason, like Traumer said, rid yourself of them...ASAP...

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Fri 03/29/13 12:14 PM
If he is laid off or on disability he may have a legal excuse for not have any money to help out on bills. Otherwise, he maybe a free loader and rid yourself of that if you are not married. If you are married, I guess you are stuck with him.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Fri 03/29/13 12:19 PM
I guess it depends on the situation and reason for not paying half the bills.

sajawalkhan Joined Fri 11/23/12 Posts: 65	Sat 03/30/13 02:02 AM
The situation is that you not meet the preson and they are say two days realtion to give money to pay my bills and one say to me the first day realtions to plz help me for bills.

siddd625 Joined Sat 03/30/13 Posts: 2	Sat 03/30/13 02:58 AM
well that strange he shud...guess hes nt the better half/....no sex fr him hell pay dnt woryy

alleoops Joined Sat 08/06/11 Posts: 10832	Sat 03/30/13 08:37 AM
what to do when your other half doesnt help with bills? Give us a little more info.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21823	Sat 03/30/13 09:00 AM
what to do when your other half doesnt help with bills? Toss him/her out into the street along with all their crap.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 03/30/13 09:28 AM
I would suggest that you don't have the best communication if you are living together and not openly discussing finances. If you are openly discussing finances and have a system figured out that he is not keeping his end of, then you may just be dealing with someone who is not good with financial commitments. Either way, I think it would be a good idea to communicate with him about your financial concerns. When it comes to financial problems, putting it off can only make it worse

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 03/30/13 09:37 AM
To most shelter and hunger are strong motivators.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 03/30/13 09:38 AM Edited by jacktrades on Sat 03/30/13 09:39 AM

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