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Topic: Did you know...
CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 12:58 PM
Edited by CuteKittyKat on Wed 03/27/13 12:59 PM
During the first date, men last 1.1 seconds of seeing his date´s eyes, 0.85 seconds admiring her hair, and almost seven seconds looking at her lips (according to studies done by the University of Manchester).

Can this be true? I don´t know. What do you look more (or just look) of the girl on a first date, guys?

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 03/27/13 01:00 PM
They forgot 15 minutes for looking at her boobs.

sybariticguy's photo
Wed 03/27/13 01:10 PM
Obviously depends of the womans physical charms and assets. If polite does not stare and appear obvious and will be subtle and not appear to stare. Men are visual creatures and some women seem to forget it just as ment often forget women are more driven to men for an overall evaluation not just physical attrributes ( hence you see really beautiful woomen with sometimes less than handsome guys and yes im exclding those with deep pockets who will appeal to one third of women who are seduced by affluence and what it offers....

HeadnHeart's photo
Wed 03/27/13 01:12 PM
emphasis on the eyes for sure, its where I get a sense of them, more so than the rest.
other than what comes out of their mouth, when speaking

dmckinnon's photo
Wed 03/27/13 01:14 PM
...and almost seven seconds looking at her lips.


I'm not surprised by this, considering what women can do with their lips.

no photo
Wed 03/27/13 02:11 PM
I tend to look at her eyes the most. When I am having a conversation I think it is improper (and suspicious) to have my eyes darting around all over her body like she was a medical chart.

jacktrades's photo
Wed 03/27/13 02:42 PM
I love to look at everything on a woman but Its the eyes when I'm on a date or having a conversation its creepy to eye them up and down like a piece of meat.

CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 05:56 PM

They forgot 15 minutes for looking at her boobs.


Yeah! I was surprised I didn´t see anything like that on the note.

CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:00 PM

Obviously depends of the womans physical charms and assets. If polite does not stare and appear obvious and will be subtle and not appear to stare. Men are visual creatures and some women seem to forget it just as ment often forget women are more driven to men for an overall evaluation not just physical attrributes ( hence you see really beautiful woomen with sometimes less than handsome guys and yes im exclding those with deep pockets who will appeal to one third of women who are seduced by affluence and what it offers....


I agree, men are more visual while women tend to look out for features that indicate that he could be "the perfect man". But I also think that it is a two ways thing. I´ve known men that seek a little bit deeper to know the person, and women that only see if the guy is good looking or not.

CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:01 PM

emphasis on the eyes for sure, its where I get a sense of them, more so than the rest.
other than what comes out of their mouth, when speaking


Yeah! Eyes are the windows of the soul.

CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:02 PM

...and almost seven seconds looking at her lips.


I'm not surprised by this, considering what women can do with their lips.


So do men. ;)

CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:05 PM

I tend to look at her eyes the most. When I am having a conversation I think it is improper (and suspicious) to have my eyes darting around all over her body like she was a medical chart.


Her eyes the most... but what other atributes are of your interest? Yeah, it can be quite improper to do a complete check up, but there are girls that like that kind of attitude. Me, not really.

CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:06 PM

I love to look at everything on a woman but Its the eyes when I'm on a date or having a conversation its creepy to eye them up and down like a piece of meat.


Eyes say it all, and yeah it can be quite creepy.

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Wed 03/27/13 06:08 PM
I like staring at their knees.

topherj37's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:15 PM
Hm, I've never thought about it. I generally try to maintain eye contact whenever I converse with someone.

no photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:15 PM

Her eyes the most... but what other atributes are of your interest? Yeah, it can be quite improper to do a complete check up, but there are girls that like that kind of attitude. Me, not really.


Well her smile can also be bewitching and hold my attention when we are chatting... but otherwise it is all down to her personality and how well we are communicating. I find that if we are unable to do that, we have nothing in common and as such no attributes she may have helps. :tongue:

no photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:16 PM

I like staring at their knees.


Really, I thought I was the only one...? I want to change my answer.

no photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:30 PM

Hm, I've never thought about it. I generally try to maintain eye contact whenever I converse with someone.


thank you. we have finally found a reasonably normal male specimen on herelaugh

CuteKittyKat's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:35 PM

I like staring at their knees.


That´s different!!! You might get brownie points with girls cause of that, but also there are girls that are so insecure about their knees so...

topherj37's photo
Wed 03/27/13 06:42 PM


Hm, I've never thought about it. I generally try to maintain eye contact whenever I converse with someone.


thank you. we have finally found a reasonably normal male specimen on herelaugh


Thanks. laugh It's the way I was brought up. Look people in the eyes, speak in a calm tone of voice. Repeat what's being said, be interested.

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