Topic: old hippie type hermits.
grizz11952001's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:14 PM
ok so i have to say seems like every girl who messages you or nudges you instantly talks about marriage or strong committements right away what ever happened to learning who each other is as friends first then getting serious later if it goes in that direction .the pressure of a committement for an old hippie hermit is scary as hell to me but the idea of having a friend to talk to an have a good time if the mood takes us in that direction priceless .just want to have fun not pray there not physco an want to marry right away or me to send them money be independant an open to discussion an honesty then if you dont like it say so an if the guy persist after that block him. love the company of a nice woman but not the pressure of the committement right away. does anyone understand this ?
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ps distance is important as well.50 miles is about a perfect distance.
thanks for the replies.smokin

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:16 PM
I certainly do.

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:21 PM
What's this got to do with me? laugh

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:24 PM

What's this got to do with me? laugh




laugh

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Wed 03/20/13 04:29 PM
I have no problem with being "friends" with a man as long as he doesn't think that sexual benefits go along with a friendship. bigsmile

grizz11952001's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:35 PM
lol old hippie thanks for the replies would love to hear more views on this one .:-)

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:38 PM

ok so i have to say seems like every girl who messages you or nudges you instantly talks about marriage or strong committements right away what ever happened to learning who each other is as friends first then getting serious later if it goes in that direction .the pressure of a committement for an old hippie hermit is scary as hell to me but the idea of having a friend to talk to an have a good time if the mood takes us in that direction priceless .just want to have fun not pray there not physco an want to marry right away or me to send them money be independant an open to discussion an honesty then if you dont like it say so an if the guy persist after that block him. love the company of a nice woman but not the pressure of the committement right away. does anyone understand this ?
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ps distance is important as well.50 miles is about a perfect distance.
thanks for the replies.smokin



I would be leary of someone who talks about marriage or a strong commitment right away. This sounds fishy to me.

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:40 PM


ok so i have to say seems like every girl who messages you or nudges you instantly talks about marriage or strong committements right away what ever happened to learning who each other is as friends first then getting serious later if it goes in that direction .the pressure of a committement for an old hippie hermit is scary as hell to me but the idea of having a friend to talk to an have a good time if the mood takes us in that direction priceless .just want to have fun not pray there not physco an want to marry right away or me to send them money be independant an open to discussion an honesty then if you dont like it say so an if the guy persist after that block him. love the company of a nice woman but not the pressure of the committement right away. does anyone understand this ?
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ps distance is important as well.50 miles is about a perfect distance.
thanks for the replies.smokin



I would be leary of someone who talks about marriage or a strong commitment right away. This sounds fishy to me.



Typical scammer mo, isn't it?

grizz11952001's photo
Wed 03/20/13 04:47 PM
alot of them are but even the real ones always seem to ask quickly about steadyness right away.smokin

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Wed 03/20/13 04:49 PM
Edited by cuddlebunny00 on Wed 03/20/13 04:50 PM
Well I get alot of younger men messaging me and nudging me with hugs n kisses...they are mostly from Asia and Africa. I am sure all the women here get those.

I am sure these women talking about marriage are from the same countries as I mentioned, even if they look caucasion, be cautious.

We all want to have a better life

metalwing's photo
Wed 03/20/13 05:55 PM

What's this got to do with me? laugh


You must have farted!

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 03/21/13 12:24 AM
It's not really my experience that every woman that's on the dating scene wants to talk about strong commitments straight away. Many of them may be looking for a "steady" relationship and something longterm but even most of those ones are sensible enough to know that you just start off with dating and see how it goes. It is just that most of the women are not putting themselves out there for men that just want "no strings fun" because this is a mainstream dating site and there are other sites out there for people that just want that sort of thing.