lets try one more time; there are a few folks here who have decides theirselves the all knowing and self rightous matter monitiors here and have made what i felt was a open site a complete travistity...
to many, i am humorous, and open minded and out spoken, to others, i am annoying and they would rather i just go away, or at least, censor what i am or what i say. most of these same folks where never members of any high school clicks, in groups or any real group settings; wanna know a secret? i wasn't either; but because of it, they, the self rightous monitiors of the white bread forums they wish to perscribe to, we all have to follow their follies and filter out any or all what might be, against what they feel is the grain here...
if i ruffled your feathers, so be it; grow up; i need no pity nor do i ask for it; this is a open forum site, and if some of us, have to suffer through others creating threads about ones self, and aare powerless to defend ones self, because it may offend others,but can construe offense ones self, i find it terribly one sided here.
i didn't come out of my "shell" until i was much older in my life; i grew tired of being limited or taken as wishy washy or as a weak man...if that offends you, maybe it is because you are happy in your situtation and don't like mine. but to censor me, or anyone for any thoughts we may have, i feel, and i know i don't speak alone, is against what our freedoms are...if i don't like you, i still hear you out; i have taken personal insults and even physical threats, but do i try to censor my critics? no, i encourage them and try to better my own self thru what i feel is not really an attack, but a cry out to understand each person's own point of views...
if you folks decide to once again, play god and censor me out, i hope the site master can read and understand, there are tow sides to each and every view

bob, there is always going to be that 10%, and holier than thows, and what have you,guess we just have to live with it, they can censure me all they want, I will speak my mind no matter what they want to hear

Hey Bob, Dam, you wrote a lot. I totally feel where your coming from. So, you didn't come out of your shell till later in life????????? Me too. I was a nerd in High school. And not ashamed to tell it.

In all fairness to you Bob, you have every right to speak your mind and be as open as you wish.....but it looks like this thread is doomed.....I swear, I never hit the button.

That's right Bucket. You gotta tell it like it is. Who cares. Freedom of speech right????????????

Hey cat, why should this thread be doomed???????????

those self rightous will kill it; not what they want to hear

it might not be, but I keep watching the counter as to who elects to delete it

just like when i first started here; shoot the messenger..

hi bob u have a right to say wotever you want you go guy

its pretty pathetic, i gotta whine like the rest to get a thread to really be understood...i feel, so .....yuck

Hey coco, I love that pic. . Anyone can say what they want. You know we all talk "Stuff" at times. Everyone is guilty of that. Let's keep it real folks.

looks to me like we are still here bob LOL

Oh, Bob, don't feel yuk.

hey bob i said not to delete

Well, Cat, the thread didn't get deleted. How about that??????????????? So, does any one have anything to add about their High school experiences??????????????? Any body else come out of their "shells" late??????????????? Come on people, let's talk about things.

gosh...i wanna reach out and hug you all........arrrrggggghhhhh....okay, i don't, but thanks anyway

I see this sweet that the thread was not doomed....surprised me!!!!!

I can't say that I came out of my shell after HS....I was just a loner, still a loner of sorts even today.

no body on this site, including me, will win any popularity contests; it is a given fact; i never set out to win friends and make buddies with any one person as well...i really joined and entered when i saw so many folks crying how miserable they where....is it my fault some tuff love was in order? no...if i just belly up to people and ask nicely, i will never get taken seroiusly; it is this wishy washyness i was trying to preach about i hate, and yet, the holy ones feel if it doesn't fit their domain of singular and happiness, it is not deemed worthy of our views....no one person has the answer; i feel better being who i am and i believe in what i say and do...is being a self centered idiot easy? nope, but it sure is a lot of fun, a whole lot more fun than i had when i was a kid

I can'tsay I was everin a shell, to damn hard headed, I have always been one to speak my mind, got my butt whipped a few times for it too, but I ain't going to change now to damn old now