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Im talking to this great girl, I mean I was talking to her:(. She told me she got hurt big time and she told me details. Shes a very quiet person, serious girl, beautiful, romantic, caring. we talked for three days... every day for 3 days. I know she was hurt and sad, I know she wanted a guy she wanted to trust some guy aand needed his support
I have her email, shes very shy girl, an awsome girl , she deactivated her account few hours ago. Maybe some girl can help me how to resolve it? I dont want her to run away? She's really sweet, sad, sweet, great girl but why such erratic behavior?:( what am I suppose to do now?:( |
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the best thing you can do is give her space.
corralling someone, anyone, when they are trying to run is only temporary. sooner or later they will find the gate again. you have her email, send her a (short) message from time to time and let her work through her issues without pressure. |
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I absolutely do...I will do that, it was just scary and so ...huh...weird so, abnormal that person talking to u and all of a sudden just deactivates an account, it left me ...empty, full of questions. I never seen anything like that...I will have patience,im sure she will come back, I have this feeling, it's just behavior, that bothers me...Im not pushy, I dont even want to meet her until she says she wants it. She's a great gal and it will be really bad if she never comes back...
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sun 03/17/13 02:10 PM
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Im talking to this great girl, I mean I was talking to her:(. She told me she got hurt big time and she told me details. Shes a very quiet person, serious girl, beautiful, romantic, caring. we talked for three days... every day for 3 days. I know she was hurt and sad, I know she wanted a guy she wanted to trust some guy aand needed his support I have her email, shes very shy girl, an awsome girl , she deactivated her account few hours ago. Maybe some girl can help me how to resolve it? I dont want her to run away? She's really sweet, sad, sweet, great girl but why such erratic behavior?:( what am I suppose to do now?:( does she have your email? wait to let her email you. if u do not hear from her wait about a week and send a couple of brief lines - keep it light "hey hope we can keep talking..." do not push |
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I absolutely do...I will do that, it was just scary and so ...huh...weird so, abnormal that person talking to u and all of a sudden just deactivates an account, it left me ...empty, full of questions. I never seen anything like that...I will have patience,im sure she will come back, I have this feeling, it's just behavior, that bothers me...Im not pushy, I dont even want to meet her until she says she wants it. She's a great gal and it will be really bad if she never comes back... that is not unusual on here ... the deactivation thing. if her behavior bothers you, that is not a good sign that you have what it takes |
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Im talking to this great girl, I mean I was talking to her:(. She told me she got hurt big time and she told me details. Shes a very quiet person, serious girl, beautiful, romantic, caring. we talked for three days... every day for 3 days. I know she was hurt and sad, I know she wanted a guy she wanted to trust some guy aand needed his support I have her email, shes very shy girl, an awsome girl , she deactivated her account few hours ago. Maybe some girl can help me how to resolve it? I dont want her to run away? She's really sweet, sad, sweet, great girl but why such erratic behavior?:( what am I suppose to do now?:( Sounds too erratic for the kind of woman you've described......are you sure profile was deactivated or she just blocked you?? Because,maybe it shows''deactivated'' even when someone blocks you?? Because,IF she's real,you'll hear from her-whether she was badly hurt or not! I mean,if she was that hurt as you've emphasised,what was she looking for on here-date? Relationship? Friendship or casual encounter?? Could it be that you wanted to give her what she's not ready for yet?? |
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Also consider that you don't know the whole story my friend. She may be hiding some things from you.
Good luck and be careful eh? |
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Huh!!????!??
I just checked OP's profile and it's been deactivated? 
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Edited by
CremeBrulee
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Sun 03/17/13 02:56 PM
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Huh!!????!?? I just checked OP's profile and it's been deactivated?
Eeeeeiiiiiii I had just checked it too-POOOF!! Gone-just like his ghost of a ''girlfriend''-both gone with the wind! 
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Im talking to this great girl, I mean I was talking to her:(. She told me she got hurt big time and she told me details. Shes a very quiet person, serious girl, beautiful, romantic, caring. we talked for three days... every day for 3 days. I know she was hurt and sad, I know she wanted a guy she wanted to trust some guy aand needed his support I have her email, shes very shy girl, an awsome girl , she deactivated her account few hours ago. Maybe some girl can help me how to resolve it? I dont want her to run away? She's really sweet, sad, sweet, great girl but why such erratic behavior?:( what am I suppose to do now?:( You can not know someone in only 3days. If you have her email, then why not just email her! |
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Huh!!????!?? I just checked OP's profile and it's been deactivated?
Eeeeeiiiiiii I had just checked it too-POOOF!! Gone-just like his ghost of a ''girlfriend''-both gone with the wind!
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3 days?
Has the world gone mad???? 3 days? And you are fussing? I tell you what. If you are the type of man who wants to pursue a girl off the internet after 3 days then I say call a Private Investigator. or try paying an online service to locate her. I think you should maybe hire Dog the bounty hunter.\ jesus christ |
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She is scared of getting to close. send her a email to let her know u understand and will be there for her as a friend so she feels no preassure to date. once she is comfortable with this then you might be able to build on that after all the best relationships are built on friendship. empathy will come in handy in this situation. best of luck
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Sounds like she's still into the guy she broke things off with. Otherwise, she'd have stayed on here and waited it out. It takes a lot to recover from a break up. I think she is giving herself necessary space, and trying not to just suddenly date just anyone. She was probably listening to her gut instinct. Though, seeing as you deactivated, you probably won't see this.
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Edited by
Specfre001
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Wed 03/20/13 05:47 AM
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Stop being sarcastic...thats not the answer I was seeking...after all I found out it was a fake account...u dont seem like a nice person...all I noticed is sarcasm and pity...Wish u luck girl..maybe someone will try to get to ya with fake account...:)
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Huh!!????!?? I just checked OP's profile and it's been deactivated?
I did not...there was an issue with my account... |
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Also consider that you don't know the whole story my friend. She may be hiding some things from you. Good luck and be careful eh? She did hide:) now she's on the run, her IP along with the headers went to fbi cybercrime division for an attempted scam... |
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Also consider that you don't know the whole story my friend. She may be hiding some things from you. Good luck and be careful eh? She did hide:) now she's on the run, her IP along with the headers went to fbi cybercrime division for an attempted scam... Wooooooooo Thank God you were fast in tracking-and your bank account is safe!! Keep eyes open and always read between the lines(deeper than what is written)!! Aaaaaah,dont give the sarcasm a second thought.....just a way we unwind,BUT,we do take giving advice and thoughts seriously tho! Cheers And goodluck! |
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Also consider that you don't know the whole story my friend. She may be hiding some things from you. Good luck and be careful eh? She did hide:) now she's on the run, her IP along with the headers went to fbi cybercrime division for an attempted scam... 
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