Have you ever been told something by a date and it's kind of a double edge sword like for example I had a coffee date with someone I met on the internet oh we emailed and talked on the phone and I wasn't really sure I liked him enough for a coffee date but I threw caution to the wind and met up so he says to me "gee, you are just what I'm looking for except if it wasn't for my overactive libido"................................................ okaaaaaayyyyy I"m pretty slow sometimes but I got what he was infering totally so I got up threw some money on the table and said let me get the tip and walked out, his mouth flew open like he was trying to catch flies. But no loss he stated he was 68 but he looked 78 so I think he was lying about his age.oh so jaded..............

Wow!! Thats all I can say is "WoW"

i missed it,,,,

i missed it,,,,

Was he talking about his own overactive libido or yours?

sounded to me like, I sure wish you were gonna put out but I doubt you will,,,,

I think some men think that if a woman meets a man on the Internet and agrees to meet him in person that she has sex in mind. Maybe some men have less respect for women who meet over the Internet?

He was probably taking the fast track to a conversation about sex.

I think she was right to just get up and leave rather than suffer that fool.

I have had a few men message me and if I respond even once to be polite, suddenly they are talking about getting together and how they can't wait to meet me in person.... even though they are all the way across the country.

It makes no sense. I don't understand, that's nonsense.

This similar kind of thing happened to me a couple of months ago. I met a guy from online for coffee and we were having a nice intelligent conversation and all was good until I stood up to leave and the way he looked at me made me very uncomfortable. He walked me to my car..proceeded to tell me on the way that he takes pills to keep IT down "OH MY GAWD" really buddy? you needed to tell me that? and then tried to kiss me.

I told him I wasn't interested.. he continued to call me a few times to invite me to a club but said as "friends" if I wanted (ya right) and if he was to have sex with someone in the corner, not to be insulted...OMG again..I turned him down several times, especially after getting a text at 3Am telling me that he just DID three gals at the same club he had invited me too ((GROSS)) I just ignored his texts until he finally stopped.

He sounds like a real horn dog. Spooky. Creepy.

Found out hes a nymph...he needs alot of sex but was looking for a relationship. Sadly I don't think people with this disorder can be monogamous as normal people can't handle that much sex. Last thing he told me was he was looking for a wife in Russia lol

Maybe he should get into the porn business and be a porn star.

I think I asked him that..can't remember his response, if he did answer

One thing about those kinds of guys, they are likely to be pretty good at sex with all that practice, but if you ever go with him, be sure to wear protection, he could be catching a lot of diseases as much has he gets around.

Protection is always a good idea anyway.

I wasn't going to touch him with a 100 ft pole lol

Yeah I am sure he was great in bed

Maybe this is a lady's thread, but only if you had a little tube of vasoline to throw out with the money...
Maybe he needed a clue?

Well I took what he said "If only it wasn't for my overactive libido" by which he meant HIS libido( lol who uses the word libido anymore) to mean that he didn't think of me in the "romantic way" if ya get my drift, but it was all good because I wasn't thinking of him that way either the only way I was thinking while listening to him explain why his last two wives dumped him was which way is the way out of here?

I'm afraid you misunderstood. You see I was sitting right behind him and he meant to say "darn, I just got bit by a mosquito". He was so nervous that it came out wrong that's all.

Uh... me?

Actually, it's a pretty common word...

Butter don't exactly melt on his tongue does it. You were right to bail.