I have a problem... this weekend the Boys want to drive to Las Vegas and
party, well the new woman in my life wants to go to some foreign film
festival.
Since I,m not foreign... I should not be watching their films.
So what is appropiate conduct here, I want to go with the Boys to
Vegas... but I know she will be disapointed... and no she cannot go.

Depends on what she thinks and how much you want this relationship to
work!
Nerves

Which one did you have plans of doing first..going to vegas with your
guys or the date with your new woman?

If you had planned on going to Vegas first, then tell her you already
had other plans..and see if you can schedule a date for one night this
week before you leave for Vegas.

If you had planned on going on the date with you new woman first, then
you need to tell your guys that you had already made other plans..

Just be honest, true to yourself, you guys, and your new woman...you'll
make the right decision...

I was told first about the Vegas trip, but I did not say yes, in
fairness, I was just out with her last nightm and this past weekend.

well, then I say it's totally up to you what you do then...just because
you're dating..doesn't mean that either of you can't spend time with
your friends as well..so I say do what you want to do..

Well if my friends asked me to go to Vegas and my new guy, whom I've
only gone out with 3x asked me to go to a foreign film festival (which
in my personal opinion, find boring), I'd have to go to Vegas. C'MON!
It's Vegas.

A night out with my girls (in your case, guys) in VEGAS! That kind of
thing doesn't happen too often, a 4th date more than likely will.

If she's as nice as she sounds, she'd understand. Good luck. : )

Ontario, you can't isolate your self from your friends. I know your new
lady might be disappointed but... if she really cares for you she will
understand. I say go to Vegas and enjoy your time bring her something
back to let her know you were thinking about her. To many times people
get into relantionships and friends are put on the back burner not that
it is meant to be that way it just happens. All I can say is if your new
relantionship can not handle this then it was never meant to be anyway.
So just talk to her and tell her about the trip and it had been planned
before and its a guys thing I'm sure she will understand. Good luck,
wish ya luck in Vegas. Put a dollar in the slots and says cheers to us
all & I hope ya hit the big one. lol

Ontario I agree with the girls,

But the question is how would you feel if it was her going to las vegas
with the girls.

thats why i dont hang with either

just ask yourself this then who would rather be cuddle up with on long
cold nights your boys or your new girlfriend for Vegas will always be
there but your girlfriend may not:(

That's just the thing though. She isn't his girlfriend. Right? You have
to be able to hang out with your friends. I've always told myself and
I'm sure y'all have heard this before. Never let a man or woman get in
the middle of a good friendship. It's the plain and simple truth.

You have a point there, so she might be his new girlfriend:)

Go to vegas.

If something like missing a file is going to set her off.
Then do you really want to get in deeper?

But I'm sure she'll understand. I mean its vegas.

I would tell her to have fun, if it was her, and yes I would rather
cuddle with her... but I,m just a guy, and I like partying and guzzling
dranks with the boys...this is a road trip you remember these right.

Sorry Ontario you got to do what you got to do:)

What?

Hang with your boys:) She might will understand after all it's just an
foreign film festival have fun:)

Okay, thanks for that!

You know its fun, i know too, so go to Vegas, do your good fun deedz the
dudes planned, then when u get back to her, GITRDONE(make it up to her)!

ha ha... good idea!