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Topic: Was I wrong?
teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Tue 03/12/13 09:13 AM
I broke up with a guy and he had left a couple of CDs and DVDs here. He wanted to come get them. Mind you he had been being very rude with me. It was late at night and no one was around and my place is pretty safe so I double bagged them so no one could see what they were and tied them tight to the door knob and went to bed. He calls and calls and texts and texts calling me obscenities. Was there anything wrong with tying them to the door knob? I do it all the time with stuff for friends. Nothing has ever been stolen.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Tue 03/12/13 09:39 AM
Nope, it's just his rudeness and immaturity that he wants to come by late at night....

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Tue 03/12/13 09:42 AM
sounded like a typical attempt at a BOOTAY call to me ?

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Tue 03/12/13 09:57 AM
sounded like a typical attempt at a BOOTAY call to me ? I didn't even think of that.

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Tue 03/12/13 10:00 AM Edited by KiK2me on Tue 03/12/13 10:18 AM


Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Tue 03/12/13 02:40 PM
If the man got his things back, then why is he upset? He must have wanted to see you in person. Maybe he wanted to be a Bully. because you broke up.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 03/12/13 07:10 PM
sounded like a typical attempt at a BOOTAY call to me ? I second this.

cuddlebunny00 Joined Sat 04/07/12 Posts: 550	Tue 03/12/13 07:26 PM
Awwwww poor guy

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Tue 03/12/13 07:47 PM
I think he either wanted to see you, whether for your booty or other reasons, or he wanted a fight and used his things tied to a doorknob as an excuse to pick one.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 03/12/13 08:05 PM
sounded like a typical attempt at a BOOTAY call to me ? I second this. thirds I know the type - recognize the signs

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Tue 03/12/13 08:06 PM
He should be glad he got them back. Its better sometimes to quit while you ahead.

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Tue 03/12/13 09:45 PM
sounds like you dodged a bullet.............you did nothing wrong and him calling and texting obscenities shows what a jerk he really is. What would it of hurt for him to call you and thank you for giving his stuff back and if he wasn't ok with the way it was done to explain that (nicely)JMO

DaySinner Joined Sat 11/17/12 Posts: 558	Tue 03/12/13 10:08 PM
you weren't wrong

Kennee77 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 236	Thu 03/14/13 06:08 AM
I broke up with a guy and he had left a couple of CDs and DVDs here. He wanted to come get them. Mind you he had been being very rude with me. It was late at night and no one was around and my place is pretty safe so I double bagged them so no one could see what they were and tied them tight to the door knob and went to bed. He calls and calls and texts and texts calling me obscenities. Was there anything wrong with tying them to the door knob? I do it all the time with stuff for friends. Nothing has ever been stolen. Woulda been Nicer 2 Hand them to him (during the Day). Even tho we've Broken up with Some1, I think We don't have 2 Stop being Nice to them

angelvoice88 Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 15	Thu 03/14/13 08:00 AM
sounds like you dodged a bullet.............you did nothing wrong and him calling and texting obscenities shows what a jerk he really is. What would it of hurt for him to call you and thank you for giving his stuff back and if he wasn't ok with the way it was done to explain that (nicely)JMO yes I am with Celtic on this one!!! You need to thank God that you were protected despite yourself on this one cause you definitely must not have been thinking clearly to entertain this oaf anyway! Know better, do better. This guy obviously was not on your level so why even start with someone like this? Stop doubting yourself--you already know the answer!!! You should have never bothered with this knucklehead. Look within to fix this problem.

tengbehboy Joined Mon 02/04/13 Posts: 7	Thu 03/14/13 09:43 AM
i think you shell just call him yourself and ask if he will like to meet you for tea or caffee during the day, like 12 or 13pm, when people are around,1, there you are save, and 2, you will be comfortable in yourself, tell him nicely that you did't answer his calls because you was bussy, but you has call him, because you wanted to give his things back.and tall him not to call or sms you anymore that you want to move on with your life, so he should do the same too. that way he will understand, and you will be more confident,and comfortabe with youself.good luck with him.

dee_87 Joined Thu 03/14/13 Posts: 4	Thu 03/14/13 11:52 AM
i think getting his cds dvds was just an excuse to see you

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Thu 03/14/13 04:21 PM
He should be glad he got them back. Its better sometimes to quit while you ahead. True...

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Fri 03/15/13 12:18 PM
Terri... he will get over it.

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Sun 03/17/13 07:13 PM
I broke up with a guy and he had left a couple of CDs and DVDs here. He wanted to come get them. Mind you he had been being very rude with me. It was late at night and no one was around and my place is pretty safe so I double bagged them so no one could see what they were and tied them tight to the door knob and went to bed. He calls and calls and texts and texts calling me obscenities. Was there anything wrong with tying them to the door knob? I do it all the time with stuff for friends. Nothing has ever been stolen. YOU KNOW, there was nothing wrong with that. But thanks for the story. :)