You get the thumbs up from me, for being upfront about it. Nothing worse than finding out a guy has been hiding things from you, after getting into a relationship with him. People who hide secrets from their lover, are more or less setting themselves up. Well done you :)

Thanks Rawrr_girl. I never hide my disability wit any1. Hiding this to whom i love is same as cheating her. I knw its very hard for any girl to spend life with disabled person. Even me if i was in their place i would have think hundred time whether to have relation with disabled person or not?
Thanks again for your post.

No need to thank me ;) If someone can't overlook your didability, then they probably aren't worth a second look, if I'm honest. People can be so biased. I'm so over judgemental people. They fly over my head. Physicality isn't always all that anyway. As long as you have the appreciation and love, then that will matter more.

I wish all people in this world thinks like u, so there would be no any difference between abled and disabled.

Bad luck here too...

I've been working as a personal assistant for almost 8 years now and the people I work with are very social and active. I've seen them, and their friends date and find love, sure, some with those that also have a disability but just as well with those that are able bodied. The key, I think, is to not let your disability define who you are as a person. Of course it has helped shape who you are, but it isn't all you are!

Don't lose hope. You seem like a really nice guy. And no, I don't think one needs to lead with their disability in their add, but I think it's brave of you to make that choice.

Dont know how to keep hope alive coz tired of being rejected all the times. Almost 10 years wait only to find true love is very long time.