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As adults, common sense will tell us that not everyone is going to like us and there are other fish in the sea. Sometimes our defense mechanism kicks in to tell us it doesn’t matter anyway, because we are better off without them. But, most of us cannot honestly deny that there is a pinch if not a punch to our emotional gut when we first learn someone we like does not like us back. What do you REALLY FEEL when it’s happens to you? I generally dont care if others like me or not, although I still try to treat others how I wish to be treated but the only people whose approval or acceptance are vital to me are my famly, who truly know me,, Im sure those who dont 'like' me have not taken time to truly know me anyhow,,, so its no big whoop Yes! The ones who love us/we love ARE the only ones who truly count. 
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As adults, common sense will tell us that not everyone is going to like us and there are other fish in the sea. Sometimes our defense mechanism kicks in to tell us it doesn’t matter anyway, because we are better off without them. But, most of us cannot honestly deny that there is a pinch if not a punch to our emotional gut when we first learn someone we like does not like us back. What do you REALLY FEEL when it’s happens to you? Stupid; for Wasting My 'Liking' on Someone who won't Return it, when there are Others Giving it Already |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Mon 03/11/13 10:07 AM
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@ Sweetestgirl....
I agree with every post you've made to this thread! 
Keeping it civil when it's nothing more than conflicting personalities (this I learned the hard way on another site  )
Making "short" work of it when someone I like makes it clear they don't feel the same about me... Offering or being open to friendship when romance is not a possibility... INTENT, a biggie!...I always know what my intent is...It is "usually" pure of heart...I know when I am being judge fairly and I know when I am not....It's this kind of self awareness combined with an aversion to rationalization that keeps my emotional hurt register in check...I also feel strongly about this...If someone has crossed me off their list because I have unintentionally hurt them or because of anything rumored rather than confront me directly I say the loss is their's and move on to better things... |
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
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As adults, common sense will tell us that not everyone is going to like us and there are other fish in the sea. Sometimes our defense mechanism kicks in to tell us it doesn’t matter anyway, because we are better off without them. But, most of us cannot honestly deny that there is a pinch if not a punch to our emotional gut when we first learn someone we like does not like us back. What do you REALLY FEEL when it’s happens to you? I find myself having to get away from men I met online, after talking long times and then arrange a meeting inperson. I decide, after first date; Nope, he is not the One for me. Most keep contact for a while but I do not care to arrange another meet. I don't like dating any man, I don't want as a mate in LTR. I "dodge that bullet" and run for the Hills.
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. |
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. Are you saying my hands are too big for his gloves? 
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@ Sweetestgirl.... I agree with every post you've made to this thread!
Keeping it civil when it's nothing more than conflicting personalities (this I learned the hard way on another site )
Making "short" work of it when someone I like makes it clear they don't feel the same about me... Offering or being open to friendship when romance is not a possibility... INTENT, a biggie!...I always know what my intent is...It is "usually" pure of heart...I know when I am being judge fairly and I know when I am not....It's this kind of self awareness combined with an aversion to rationalization that keeps my emotional hurt register in check...I also feel strongly about this...If someone has crossed me off their list because I have unintentionally hurt them or because of anything rumored rather than confront me directly I say the loss is their's and move on to better things... No...people who dislike me for mishaps or things I'm innocent of don't register on the pain scale. They would not have been a good addition anyway. |
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@ Sweetestgirl.... I agree with every post you've made to this thread!
Keeping it civil when it's nothing more than conflicting personalities (this I learned the hard way on another site )
Making "short" work of it when someone I like makes it clear they don't feel the same about me... Offering or being open to friendship when romance is not a possibility... INTENT, a biggie!...I always know what my intent is...It is "usually" pure of heart...I know when I am being judge fairly and I know when I am not....It's this kind of self awareness combined with an aversion to rationalization that keeps my emotional hurt register in check...I also feel strongly about this...If someone has crossed me off their list because I have unintentionally hurt them or because of anything rumored rather than confront me directly I say the loss is their's and move on to better things... No...people who dislike me for mishaps or things I'm innocent of don't register on the pain scale. They would not have been a good addition anyway. You are such a bright and shinny star  ...I predict you will not be single long!
Suck up, moi?......Never....ever, ever, ever! I mean it Cyn..... 
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. 
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. Are you saying my hands are too big for his gloves?
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. Are you saying my hands are too big for his gloves?
I take it you haven't heard the old saying about the size of a man's hands
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. Are you saying my hands are too big for his gloves?
I take it you haven't heard the old saying about the size of a man's hands
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. Are you saying my hands are too big for his gloves?
I take it you haven't heard the old saying about the size of a man's hands
That's what I thought... 
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. Are you saying my hands are too big for his gloves?
I take it you haven't heard the old saying about the size of a man's hands
That's what I thought...
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next... Filing this under fail proof techniques for breaking up.... You two slay me!
But the gloves don't fit HER. Are you saying my hands are too big for his gloves?
I take it you haven't heard the old saying about the size of a man's hands
That's what I thought...
Does what matter.... |
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