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Topic: whats more important looks or personality ?
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48973	Tue 02/26/13 04:37 PM
If looks are a huge turn-off, then the personality may not be given a chance to reveal itself.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Tue 02/26/13 04:37 PM
I concur

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Tue 02/26/13 04:39 PM
I have to say personality, but there has to be a physical attraction.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 02/26/13 04:42 PM
In my youth looks. Now that I'm a man personality. I think its easier for men because most women get better looking with age but men seem to fade.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 02/26/13 04:44 PM
The size of her stoop, I dated a girl with a nice sized stoop once...It was effin' awesome.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Tue 02/26/13 04:45 PM
I’ll answer a question with a question, because it’s the clearest way I can illustrate how I feel on the subject. If a man/woman you were dating TOLD you that he found you beautiful in every sense but physically, would you be happy with that match? If your answer is no, then you would never do this to someone else, whether spoken or kept quiet. If your answer is yes, I don’t believe you. If your answer is still yes, then I don’t understand you.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 02/26/13 04:49 PM
I’ll answer a question with a question, because it’s the clearest way I can illustrate how I feel on the subject. If a man/woman you were dating TOLD you that he found you beautiful in every sense but physically, would you be happy with that match? If your answer is no, then you would never do this to someone else, whether spoken or kept quiet. If your answer is yes, I don’t believe you. If your answer is still yes, then I don’t understand you. Some of us are better off misunderstood, just how we roll in these social joints and s*.

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Tue 02/26/13 05:14 PM
Generally, both men and women want to have some sort of physical attraction of their romantic partner. For most, physical attraction doesn't buy the farm: it's only a door opener. Then they begin evaluating their new SO's personality and character traits.

goldenhinde Joined Wed 12/12/12 Posts: 631	Tue 02/26/13 05:33 PM
Dammit, looks, dammit, it's true, I like the looks. guess I am not looking for long term..................

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15205	Tue 02/26/13 05:46 PM
Generally, both men and women want to have some sort of physical attraction of their romantic partner. For most, physical attraction doesn't buy the farm: it's only a door opener. Then they begin evaluating their new SO's personality and character traits. Great Response!

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Tue 02/26/13 06:25 PM
I’ll answer a question with a question, because it’s the clearest way I can illustrate how I feel on the subject. If a man/woman you were dating TOLD you that he found you beautiful in every sense but physically, would you be happy with that match? If your answer is no, then you would never do this to someone else, whether spoken or kept quiet. If your answer is yes, I don’t believe you. If your answer is still yes, then I don’t understand you. Some of us are better off misunderstood, just how we roll in these social joints and s*. I can roll with that. Who says I have to understand eveyone? Variety IS still the spice of life, oui?

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Tue 02/26/13 06:29 PM
Looks come and go but personality is forever.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/26/13 06:35 PM
I love,a girl with a good personality looks for me is just a bonus :) looks are a wonderful enticement it is the personalities of both that make it last, and make it truly speshal :)

nikkifeliciano Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 12	Tue 02/26/13 06:41 PM
I think u attracted first base on looks.. but u will stay base on his personality..

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 551	Tue 02/26/13 09:59 PM
In a relationship, I think personality is much more important for me than looks. No human being wants to see or know another if he/she have extraotrdinary personality and no looks. It is a fact. I give looks less than 25% since i emphasize on personality.

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 551	Tue 02/26/13 10:05 PM
I’ll answer a question with a question, because it’s the clearest way I can illustrate how I feel on the subject. If a man/woman you were dating TOLD you that he found you beautiful in every sense but physically, would you be happy with that match? If your answer is no, then you would never do this to someone else, whether spoken or kept quiet. If your answer is yes, I don’t believe you. If your answer is still yes, then I don’t understand you. Hey, I hate to disappoint you but my answer to your question is neither yes nor no since I am a good natured guy and physically attractive

bear678 Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 1	Tue 02/26/13 11:12 PM
I would definatly have to say that looks do not mater if her personality did not match you can be drop dead gorgeous on the outside but ugly as can be on the inside and that alone will make you ugly all the way around

matterazi Joined Thu 02/07/13 Posts: 2	Tue 02/26/13 11:30 PM
good personality definitely cannot be denied but good heart with optimistic approach towards life is also required

amaria90 Joined Thu 11/03/11 Posts: 2806	Wed 02/27/13 02:12 AM
I stand by what I said if I can't see the guy and I find out later he was hygienically unclean. Then I would have to wonder what else he was hiding while we were talking and getting to know each other.

MetalShadow6 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 924	Wed 02/27/13 06:47 AM
I stand by what I said if I can't see the guy and I find out later he was hygienically unclean. Then I would have to wonder what else he was hiding while we were talking and getting to know each other. It is important that ones partner does least take a bath every day,brush their teeth, and wear clean clothes.